Date a Married Man, but not on Tinder!

sedjgyocdbjxqqhj83p3 the largest married dating site in the UK has revealed that 6% of their members are in fact single and not married or attached. With statistics released this week that report 42% of Tinder users are married – it seems extra-marital affairs sites are more relevant now than ever.

The 6% of members who are single admit so openly too, many prefer a relationship with someone that is attached – not wanting a full-time relationship but rather a part-time one where there is no confusion about their intentions. Dating a married man or woman can be more convenient for someone who is single and simply doesn’t want the emotional stress that comes with a conventional relationship.

Tinder advertises itself as a dating App that allows you to anonymously swipe members you like. But with features such as connecting your Instagram account or seeing their Facebook photos makes this App less than discrete. Now that stats reveal that almost half of it’s members are in a relationship this can be very misleading for the genuine Singles who have signed up to the site.

With an extra-marital dating site like what you see is what you get – the majority of members are married and admit so openly. The discretion is assured and allows married members to seek others in the same situation as themselves and not rock any boats within their marriage.

Susan, 41 year old single member on said ‘I’ve been down the route of what people call ‘normal’ dating, and it just isn’t for me. I do have a partner who is married and I wouldn’t want it any other way. We are very much in love and whenever we do see each other there is an incredible connection between the two of us – but I think I would shoot myself if I needed to spend all of my free time with him. I just don’t think men and women should live together, I like my own space and I like to invite him to join me from time to time. I respect he has a family to go home to, his wife – his life I say. I love my freedom, I am fiercely independent and enjoy my own space, that is why having a boyfriend who is married is very convenient for me.’

Spokesperson for Claire Page said “We’ve all heard Tinder horror stories. There are countless sites that are dedicated to naming and shaming Tinder-weirdos, and many people sign up to the app then leave fairly quickly because of the strange communication they have received. As far as dating platforms go – Tinder is regarded as the one for ‘hook-ups’. Those members that are in a relationship are heading down a dangerous path as it will be hard to cover their tracks, not least because the App is installed on your device and phone probably in reach of a significant other.

Top 10 Reasons to Date a Married Man
1. No commitments. You can meet them as and when you agree upon, and you don’t have to feel bad about doing what you want when you want, or who you want.
2. Married men are more honest. As you are not their primary relationship they will share more about their feelings because between the two of you – there is nothing to hide.
3. A married man will give you more attention. They will shower you with affection because this is what they are normally missing from their married life.
4. Married men put in more effort. The new found spark will revive them and that honeymoon period you so often see when you first enter a relationship is ever-present.
5. You will never need to compromise your own life. Don’t have time to see him? That’s perfectly fine. Never will you need to cancel on an event, or fear seeing a friend because you don’t want to upset your partner – the married man will understand you have your own life to lead.
6. No bunny boilers. Jealousy is a thing of the past, no need to worry about the green-eyed monster; you have an agreement that you are sharing each other.
7. No emotional baggage. Their problems are their problems; you don’t need to take them home with you. When you enter a relationship you’re normally faced with that person’s baggage – but a married man’s suitcase don’t belong to you.
8. You can leave him. Once you’ve fulfilled your own needs or desires, you have no obligation to remain in the relationship. You want out? There’s no need to draw up a list of pros and cons, you can simply walk away.
9. It’s a secret. An illicit Romeo and Juliet. There’s just something saucy about it being just between the two of you, many people fantasize about a secret love affair.
10. Incredible sex life. Married men are better in bed, they may be in a sexless marriage so they will try extra hard to please you in the bedroom.

The UK’s Leading married dating website is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 970,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:


Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

You’re caught! The Top Ten Apps that Bust Affairs!


You’re caught! The Top Ten Apps that Bust Affairs!

Married dating site released a list of the top apps that are to blame for breakups. The list was based on votes from 100 women, all who found out their husbands were having affairs on apps.

The top ten adultery-busting apps were:

1) Facebook – The biggest culprit is the social network giant. 76% of women said they became suspicious when they logged into their partner’s Facebook and found out he was messaging other women; stalked his female friends and found out he was still friends with an ex; or saw he had become friends with someone they later discovered he was having an affair with.

2) Whatsapp – 34% of women said their suspicions were raised when they found their husband was in contact with other women, or could see that he was lying about his location, via Whatsapp.

3) i-Message – Any communication through i-Message also goes to your iPad, laptop etc. so if your laptop is at your house, along with your wife, you might get busted. 29% of women said they became aware of their husband’s affair through his i-Message communications.

4) Snapchat – Often mistaken as the best app if you’re having an affair because images are wiped after ten seconds, people forget that you can take a screenshot of your images and that your history shows who you’ve been in contact with. 27% of women said they became suspicious when they saw contact from other women on their husband’s phone via Snapchat – more than half of these women said they would have been less suspicious if they could see what the pictures were, but the secrecy made them more suspicious.

5) Manything – It’s CCTV for your phone, laptop or tablet. It livestreams and records the inside of your house to the cloud. 19% of women said they had caught their husbands cheating or speaking to their mistress on the phone when they were out of the house via Manything.

6) Find my iPhone – This app locates people in seconds so if you leave the house with your phone and you’re not where you say you are, you could land yourself in trouble. 11% of women said they found out their husband was not where he said he was by tracking him with Find my iPhone.

7) Kik – This adult-orientated app has an age restriction, for 17+. More than half of the members (57%) on Illicit Encounters said they use Kik for ‘sexting’ and sending ‘naughty pictures’. 7% of women surveyed said they became concerned about their husband’s fidelity when they saw the Kik app on his phone.

8) Lie Detector: True Scanner app – This is an application that can detect lies through the touch screen and by detecting physical changes in the body of the person being interrogated, such as changes in emotional state, blood pressure, mood detection, finger sweating and finger temperature. 5% of women said they knew their husband was lying about his fidelity when he didn’t pass the lie detector test or refused to take it.

9) Tinder – Discretion is abandoned by anyone having an affair and using Tinder. 4% of women said they doubted their husband’s faithfulness when they saw Tinder on his phone.

10) Find my Friend – 2% of women knew their husband was lying about his whereabouts when this app showed his location to be different to where he said he was.

“What I find most interesting about this list is how obvious some men are!” Claire Page, spokesperson for said, “Discretion is our main priority and the most important thing when having a successful affair. I wouldn’t encourage anyone to be friends with their mistress or histress on Facebook – it’s just asking for trouble. Four in five breakups are linked with Facebook so if you’re having an affair, don’t learn from you own mistakes – learn from other people’s, and keep it off social media!”

Of the 100 women surveyed who found out their husbands were having affairs on apps, 28% stayed with their husbands. The top three reasons these women stayed with their husbands despite being aware of their husband’s infidelity were:

1) I cannot afford to leave him (57%)

2) I am having an affair too (32%)

3) I don’t want to change the family setup (7%)

Therapists at leading charity ‘Relationships Ireland’ say as many as 80% of marriages they are trying to save have fallen apart partly because of Facebook.

According to a study by journal CyberPsychology, 28 million couples break up every year because of Facebook or Whatsapp.

NOTES TO EDITOR is the UK’s leading dating site for married people. With over 988,000 members across the UK.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:


Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire