Top Ten Songs People Listen to After a Breakup!

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Top Ten Songs People Listen to after a Breakup

A poll with 500 votes by married dating website IllicitEncounters.com found that 79% of people listen to more music after a breakup, and showed what the top breakup songs were.

“Interestingly, we found that Adele’s ‘Someone Like You’ is the most popular song immediately after breakups,” Claire Page, spokesperson for Illicit Encounters said, “But Gotye’s ‘Someone That I Used to Know’ is the most popular song two-weeks after breakups. This really reflects the emotional process of a breakup – initially sorrow and then anger. At first, breakups are emotionally exhausting, but time is a healer and after a while you pull yourself together and realise that the person you were with wasn’t meant for you, or you may even look back with fondness for what once made you happy.”

The Top Break Up Songs were:

  • 1)Adele – Someone Like You
  • 2)Eric Carmen – All By Myself
  • 3)Bon Iver – I can’t make you love me
  • 4)Michael Bolton – How am I supposed to live without you?
  • 5)Christina Perri – Jar of Hearts
  • 6)Gotye – Somebody that I used to know
  • 7)Joy Division – Love Will Tear us Apart
  • 8)Harry Nilsson – Without You
  • 9)Roxette – It Must Have Been Love
  • 10)Sinéad O’Connor – Nothing Compares to You

“Music can be incredibly therapeutic,” psychologist Lucy Redford said, “It’s been proven to help with anxiety, stress, relaxation and depression. Music is a core function in our brain. The power of sound is immense. Our brain is primed early on to process and react to sound. Studies have proven that day-old infants can detect the differences in rhythmic patterns. For centuries, mothers relax and sooth their babies with lullabies. Speaking purely evolutionary, music precedes language. It isn’t fully clear to us why, but our brains are wired to automatically respond to music. In a way, music helps our survival because healthy minds outgrow and outlive unhealthy minds, and healthy minds mean healthy bodies.”

The UK and Ireland’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK and Ireland’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 986,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

​Red Tuesday: The Top Dumping Day of the Year is Four Days before Valentine’s Day!

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‘Red Tuesday’ is the top dumping day of the year, just four days before Valentine’s Day, according to new research released today by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s top married dating website. 3,000 people were surveyed on Illicit Encounters and one in five – 22% – had broken up with someone the week before Valentine’s Day. Dumping someone electronically is also rising in popularity with most people breaking up with someone over their phone.

The top six ways people chose to dump their partners were:

  • 1)By text (31%)
  • 2)By phone call (28%)
  • 3)In person (27%)
  • 4)Over Facebook (8%)
  • 5)By Whatsapp (4%)
  • 6)Over Twitter (2%)

The period between Christmas and February is always a popular time for people to spring clean their love lives as well as their homes, but there is a sharp increase in people breaking up with their partners four days before Valentine’s Day.

22% of people surveyed had admitted to breaking up with someone the week before Valentine’s Day, with the majority (473 of the 660) saying they made a clean break four days before the festival of love.

“There are many different reasons people make such a drastic decision so close to Valentine’s Day,” said psychologist Lucy Redford, “Some people realise how much they don’t love someone with the romanticism in the air; some buckle under the pressure of committing; others think they can probably do better if they’re not happy and because Valentine’s Day is a national celebration, it’s hard to ignore. For a lot of couples, the 14th February brings them closer together and makes them realise how in love they are. For others, it’s a reminder of the cracks in their relationship. A lot of people cannot bear to be false and celebrate something that doesn’t exist, so they break up beforehand. It might seem quite cruel but it’s very emotionally damaging for a person to be in a relationship that’s not giving them anything positive. Staying when it’s not working can be a lot more toxic in the long run than going your separate ways.”

“Last year we had a record number of new members joining the site the week before Valentine’s Day,” said Claire Page, spokesperson for Illicit Encounters, “This is without a doubt due to the amount of people who have been dumped before Valentine’s Day and don’t want to be alone on the 14th, as well as the inflation of people who want to make a change if they’re in a stale relationship. We all have a fundamental need to feel important, loved and valued. If you’re not happy, do something about it – have an affair!”

Notes to editors:

The UK’s Leading married dating website is IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.comis the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 978,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email:presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

Notes to editors:

The UK’s Leading married dating website is IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.comis the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 978,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email:presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire