As University Starts, Empty Nest Syndrome Sparks A Sharp Increase In Cheating Love Rats

 

  • llicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, has seen an alarming 67% month-on-month increase in the amount of parents signing up to the site
  • With their children leaving for university, married couples find that their relationship with their partner is not what it once was
  • Many go in search of an affair in search of the companionship that they’re sorely missing
  • Interestingly, of the new parents to have signed up to IllicitEncounters.com in the last month, as many as 44% were either housewives or unemployed, with the loneliness too much to handle

Your children are taking their first step into adulthood as they leave for university, but as you celebrate their new journey, you start to realise what it is they’ve left behind.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity, can report an alarming 67% month-on-month increase in the amount of parents signing up to the site.

The cause? ‘Empty Nest Syndrome’. With thousands of 18-year-olds fleeing the nest for the very first time, parents find themselves in ground they’ve not tread on for almost two decades.

While the solitude of a child-free home might initially seen as a blessing, it’s not long before the cracks in the relationship start to appear. Married couples find themselves bored, distant, and begin to realise that the love they had for their partner has dwindled, and it was their child that was truly keeping them together.

Interestingly, of the new parents to have signed up to IllicitEncounters.com in the last month, as many as 44% were either housewives or unemployed, with the loneliness too much to handle.

With the relationship with their child now becoming long-distance, and the relationship with their partner not what it once was, they go in search of an affair, and some companionship.

The site’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, comments:

“The children are very often the glue that keeps everything together, but that can only delay the inevitable for so long.

“People change, and the person you first stood opposite the altar is unlikely to be the same person you find yourself living with 18 years later. For many, the romance, the spark, and the excitement is all but gone.

“It’s also clear to see that it doesn’t take long for these feelings to get the better of most people. Empty Nest Syndrome strikes fast – in a matter of weeks for many.

“With no children left to take care of, one’s mission as a parent feels complete, and with your partner feeling more like a stranger than ever before, it’s no surprise to see so many seek an affair to find what they’re missing.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

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Older Women Are Having Affairs With Younger Versions of their Husbands

  • More and more older women are having affairs with younger versions of their husbands
  • IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, has seen a 30% year-on-year increase in the amount of women over the age of 40 signing up to the site
  • The site surveyed a sample of over 500 married women over the age of 40, and found that 86% joined the site because their sex life had dwindled
  • As many as 16% have had an affair with someone aged 5 to 10 years younger, 37% have had an affair with someone aged 10 to 15 years younger, while 25% have had an affair with someone as much as 15 to 20 years younger than them

With more and more women reportedly losing interest in sex as they age, many have found a solution: an affair with a younger man.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity, has seen a significant 30% year-on-year increase in the amount of women over the age of 40 signing up to the site.

The site surveyed a sample of over 500 married women over the age of 40, and found that a  whopping 86% joined the site because their sex life with their husband had dwindled.

39% of respondents said that this was down to their husband losing interest in sex altogether, 31% said that their husband refused to
experiment in the bedroom, will 20% said that sexual dysfunction had thrown the proverbial spanner in the works.

That’s might be of little surprise, but what *is* is that as many as 78% have had an affair with a younger man.

To be more specific, 16% have had an affair with someone aged 5 to 10 years younger, 37% have had an affair with someone aged 10 to 15 years younger, with the remaining 25% having an affair with someone as much as 15 to 20 years younger than them.

The site’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, explains:

“A lack of passion and sex is unarguably the heaviest anchor in any relationship. Fortunately, there is a way out, and that comes in the form of toy boys. When presented with the opportunity to date a younger, more energetic and more virile version of your husband – who, by contrast, lacks all of those things in his later years – it’s very difficult to say no, and the ever increasing numbers of older women searching for these younger men proves that that is the case.”

Holly, a 43-year-old business owner from Buckinghamshire, added:

“I still love my husband. He’s the same man I married many years ago, but it’s impossible to ignore the lack of intimacy in our marriage. When someone loses interest in sex, it’s incredibly difficult. It’s not something you can simply talk them out of – I haven’t been able to anyway. But again, I love my husband for the man he is, so I’m not keen on a divorce.

“An affair has allowed me to get the best of both worlds. My husband continues to remain my rock and my best friend, while the lack of intimacy in our marriage is resolved elsewhere.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Over Half Of All Affairs Begin At Work

  • 55% of married people have admitted to having their very first affair with someone at work
  • 78% of married people have had an affair with someone at work with 10% cheating with their boss or line manager
  • High-pressure and demanding jobs were home to the greatest number of adulterers, with those in financial services, the legal profession, and teachers home to 23%, 18% and 15% of adulterers respectively
  • The results come from a survey of over 350 married people on IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

Work-based romances are commonplace, but an increase in work-based affairs is to wreak havoc in offices and marital homes alike.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity, can report that as many as 55% of married people have admitted to having their very first affair with someone at work.

Worryingly, the survey of over 350 married men and women found that work-based affairs are far from commonplace.

In fact, as many as 78% of all respondents have had an affair with someone they work with, with 10% of those engaging in an affair with their boss or line manager.

Unsurprisingly, high-pressure and demanding jobs were home to the greatest number of adulterers; those who worked in financial services, in the legal profession, and as teachers were home to the majority of love rats:  23%, 18% and 15% respectively.

The alarming number of adulterers seeking comfort in their colleagues is bound to be a source of worry, as the site’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, explains:

“Let’s be honest, we’ve all fancied someone at work at some point or another. We secretly rate our colleagues, from 1 to 10 and flirt with them inappropriately during work socials, so when all is said and done, is this really any surprise?”

“When you’re overworked and over-stressed, logic goes out the window, it’s your colleague that often provides a shoulder for you to lean on. You spend more time with them during your average week than you do with your own family and friends, so strong bonds and relationships form over the months and years, and it’s very common for crushes to develop.

“Mix in a high-stress, high-pressure environment, and the rest is history.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

As Wayne Rooney Has Proved, Men Don’t Consider A Kiss As Cheating

  • In the wake of Wayne Rooney kissing another woman, llicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people surveyed over 300 men and 300 women to find out what they considered to be cheating
    Just 28% of men think that kissing another woman counts as cheating
    8% of men think that seductively dancing with someone is cheating; 14% think flirting is cheating
    Women shared very different views, with 88% thinking that sharing a kiss with another woman is cheating, while 39% count flirting as cheating
    There was some agreement, as only 6% of men and 9% of women agreed that ‘liking’ or complimenting someone’s photos on social media crosses the line
  • The definition of cheating is blurred. Well, for men it is anyway. IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity, surveyed over 300 men and 300 women to find out what they considered to be cheating, and the between them were surprisingly vast.

Unsurprisingly, any sexual activity with another person, including ‘sexting’, counts as cheating according to 100% of all men surveyed. That’s to be expected, but an alarmingly low 8% of men think that seductively dancing with someone is cheating, just 14% think flirting is cheating, and only 28% think that sharing a kiss – drunken or otherwise – counts as cheating.

While women unanimously agreed that any sexual activity consisted as cheating, their views on dancing, flirting and kissing were vastly different. 21% think that dancing counts as cheating, 39% think flirting counts as cheating, and as many 88% think that sharing a kiss with another person is crossing the line.

There was some agreement between men and women however, as only 25% of men and 22% of women agreed that attending a strip club counts as cheating, while 6% of men and 9% of women agreed that ‘liking’ or complimenting someone’s photos on social media crosses the line.

Men and women also saw some agreement when it came to holding hands (10% men, 8% women agree it counts as cheating), remaining good friends with a previous partner (15% men, 26% women) and even having intimate thoughts about someone else (11% men, 29% women).

The site’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, expands:

“Mr Rooney is not the first man to share a drunken kiss with another woman, and he won’t be the last. Unfortunately for women, men have completely different rules when it comes to cheating, and they use those rules to their advantage. A bit of “harmless fun” was what Rooney’s drunken kiss with Laura Simpson has since been described as, and it’s that kind of attitude that means men will continue to cheat; if there are no consequences, and they don’t consider it cheating, they’ll keep on doing it.

“Wayne Rooney has three children, with a fourth on the way, has been married for nearly a decade, but despite all of this, he still couldn’t resist temptation. But should we be surprised? Not only is his view on cheating different to his wife’s, he’s just spent 13 years at Manchester United, the club home to perhaps the most notorious cheater to come out of the UK in recent years – Ryan Giggs. He’s learnt from the best.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer