Boris Johnson Voted Most Bed-able Politician

· Boris Johnson voted most bed-able politician
· Adulterers would divorce their partners for Green party leaders Jonathan Bartley and Siân Berry
· Politician we’d most like to avoid is Nigel Farage
· Poll run by IllicitEncounters.comthe UK’s leading dating website for married people

With politics in disarray and nobody quite sure what’s going on with Brexit, one thing is for certain that the race for a seat as a member of parliament has become a popularity contest.

Who to trust to lead our country into prosperity? IllicitEncounters.com put the vote to 1200 of its members with a slightly different kind of poll – asking who they would like to cheat with, divorce their spouse for or avoid. Afterall, cheating and politics has often gone hand in hand.

The poll indicates most women would cheat with Boris Johnson (47%) and more than half of men would be unfaithful with Jo Swinson (51%).

Both Green Party leaders won the divorce spouse for category. Jonathan Bartley came top for women (35%) and Siân Berry for men (22%).

More politicians then ever ranked high in the avoid category with Nigel Farage scoring the highest with 82% of women choosing to avoid him, closely followed by Jeremy Corbyn 74%, Arlene Foster 71% and Nicola Sturgeon 65%. Such high avoid scores suggest that our collective impression of politicians, in general, currently fairs quite low.

Full details of winners are listed below:

Have an affair with

Boris Johnson
Marital Status: It’s Complicated

“The Tory leader has set pulses racing as the most bed-able politician in the upcoming elections. No surprise there, Bojo oozes irresistible charm and he can make a woman laugh – humour goes a long way. Some might even say, one minute you’re laughing, next minute your clothes are off! Boris is a man of his word, or lack thereof, regularly avoiding an interview with Scottish broadcaster Andrew Neil – making him a very discrete affair candidate. Women are safe in the knowledge he can keep things under wraps – including how many kids that he’s fathered.

We can all agree Bojo is a bit like marmite, whether you love him or hate him – it’s safe to say he does attract a lot of attention. Who knows, perhaps Boris could even teach us a thing or two about pole dancing, what a tease.”

Jo Swinson
Marital Status: Married

“Jo Swinson is a natural affair-seekers choice. She is genuine, full of life and inspirational, with a charming Scottish accent to boot. She is also the youngest and only female to ever hold the position of leader of the Lib Dems – this kind of ambition is very attractive. Jo is relatively new to the role, but there is no disputing, that the Swinson Surge truly extends to who voters would most want to cheat on their spouse with.”

Would have a divorce for

Jonathan Bartley
Marital Status: Separated

“Oh, Jonathan. The co-leader of the Green party, and a born and bred Londoner, it is no surprise many women have voted to leave their husbands for him. Jonathan is irresistible, good-looking, with a cracking smile and confidence without the cockiness. To top it off he’s in a band! No matter the age, women will always fall at the feet of a Rockstar. Jonathan is the drummer for the blues rock band the Mustangs and even played Glasto a couple of years ago. Swoon.”

Siân Berry
Marital Status: Single

“Miss Berry the Green goddess, eco warrior once described as ‘environmental viagra’. A blonde, blue eyed beauty – with a lovely smile, not only that but Siân is smart and articulate – it is unsurprising men are drawn to her. Siân embodies the epitome of a strong and confident woman.”

Avoid

Nigel Farage
Marital Status: Married

“Leader of the Brexit party, Nigel is not winning any popularity contests anytime soon. Mr. Farage gives off a demeanour of a villain with controversial views on firearms and immigration. He simply does not appeal to women for any type of romance.”

Arlene Foster
Marital Status: Married

“The northern Irish politician ranks highest in the avoid category for men. Being a married mother of three could easily contribute to her lack of sex appeal for men.”

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353 986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

How faithful is your star sign?

• Capricorns crowned top cheating star sign
• Sagittarius’ are the most faithful
• 14% of adulterers are cheating on a Leo
• Data released by the UK’s top extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com

Could cheating be written in the stars? IllicitEncounters.com analysed data of 180,000 of its married members and found that the zodiac may have a lot to say about infidelity.

Capricorns topped the charts with 16% of cheaters belonging to this star sign, closely followed by Libra’s with 13%.

Want your partner to remain faithful? Dating a Sagittarius secures monogamy with only 4% of archers currently cheating on their partner.

Other star signs less likely to cheat are Aquarius (5%) and Pieces (5%)

2000 members were also asked what star sign their spouse was, and a phenomenal 14% reported that their married to a Leo.

Natasha a Capricorn currently using the site said “I’d had it up to here with my husband last year. You see, my birthday is on the 24th of December, and my husband plans me a rubbish – buy one get one free Christmas slash birthday gift – every, single, year! What a way to make you feel appreciated.

I decided enough was enough, and as an extra special birthday treat to myself – I decided to have an affair. Heck, best decision I’ve ever made, and guess what, the other guy I’m seeing has already promised me a birthday out of this world, and that’s alongside my Christmas present. For once I’m looking forward to the winter break.”

Jennifer a Libra on the site who is currently having an affair said “My husband is a Leo. In many ways he’s the perfect partner, father and provider. He’s always working hard, he’s great with the kids and he does put in effort into our relationship. Having said that, he drives me completely and utterly insane half the time, he’s a perfectionist, can’t let things go and often obsesses. Sometimes it’s nice to just escape from him, away from everything serious and just let my hair down and have fun.”

Jessica spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com adds “Capricorns are earth signs who are extremely practical. When a Capricorn is in a marriage that is not making them entirely happy their solution is to go seek that happiness elsewhere. Being practical, Capricorns are more than capable of compartmentalising their affair and are great at keeping secrets and are therefore unlikely to get caught cheating.

Sagittarius’ belong to the fire element, and they are fiercely independent, which may come as a shock that so few Sagittarius’ are unfaithful. Although known to be adventures, risky and sociable, once a Sagittarius makes a commitment, they stick to it. A Sagittarius is always on the search for sex, love and relationships, however they are more inclined to escape an unhappy marriage, than look for some extra-marital fun; multi-dating is not their forte.

Why are Leo’s everywhere being cheated on – isn’t it obvious? Leo’s are passionate star signs, very competitive and ambitious, and naturally extremely stubborn. When your partner always wants to get their own way, it’s only natural that you need to get yours too, elsewhere.”

Results
Capricorn 16%
Libra 13%
Cancer 11%
Taurus 9%
Gemini 8%
Leo 8%
Scorpio 8%
Aries 7%
Virgo 6%
Pisces 5%
Aquarius 5%
Sagittarius 4%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 0207 729 6098

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Cheaters less likely to forgive an affair

•         8 out of 10 adulterers would divorce their partner if they discovered their partner was also cheating
•         Over half of adulterers would rather be lied to about their partners infidelity
•          More people agree watching pornography is worse than flirting
•          Study released by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading dating website for married people

2000 members on extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com were polled on whether they would forgive their partners infidelity, as it turns out a whopping 8 out of 10 spouses agree they would leave their partners upon discovery of their indiscretions.

The results also indicated that cheaters would prefer not to know if they are also being cheated on, with 58% agreeing they’d much rather be left in the dark. Suggesting that cheating is OK if it’s kept under wraps.

100% of those surveyed affirmed that physical intimacy is considered being unfaithful, as well as cyber cheating (94%)

More members agreed that watching pornography is to be considered unfaithful (21%) compared to only 14% agreeing that flirting is unfaithful.

Erica a member on IllicitEncounters.com said “I’m having an affair for attention; my husband of 14 years now genuinely believes quality time together is watching the telly on a Saturday night. I love my husband and would never leave him but when your husband treats you with indifference what more can you do? I could literally walk into the room naked and he wouldn’t notice.  So yes, if I found out my husband’s lack of attention towards me was being bestowed upon a mistress, I would certainly up and leave”

Olivia another female member using the site said “I’d rather he was having an affair, that I never found out about. What I have outside of my marriage is just a bit of fun and excitement and I’m careful to keep it separate, I don’t want to break up my marriage. Some may call it double standards, but if he was out sleeping with other women and foolish enough to get caught – I’d feel more disrespected that he couldn’t keep it a secret. Have a little flirt if you have to – just be discrete about it.’

Jessica Leoni, spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It takes a lot to reach that point of realisation that you require more from life than your marriage is capable of providing.

Many people find solace and happiness in extra-marital relationships, but fundamentally treat it as a secret escape, separate from the day-to-day grind of their full time lives. Which comes as no surprise as to why cheaters would prefer not to find out that their other half was also having an affair, c’est la vie! If it’s kept secret it can’t hurt anybody.

What is a little shocking is that so many adulterers would file for divorce if they found out their partner was cheating, it seems the discovery is more painful than the act itself though – so we always recommend hiding your tracks.

On the plus side, flirting is okay! For banter’s sake.”

Results

Do you consider the following to be unfaithful?
Physical Intimacy – 100% agreed
Cyber cheating – 94% agreed
Sexting – 86% agreed
Emotional cheating – 74% agreed
Watching Pornography – 21% agreed
Flirting – 14% agreed

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Sexiest Halloween Costumes 2019

• Harley Quinn voted hottest Halloween outfit for women
• Joker voted sexiest Halloween outfit for men
• Witches and Scarecrows make least sexy costumes
• Survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra-marital dating site

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed 1000 of its male and female members in search for the sexiest Halloween costumes of 2019 and the results are in.

If there was a prize going for best Halloween costume it seems the villainous couple Joker (20%) and Harley Quinn (17%) top the charts.

The study also reveals the devil (14%) is set to get men horny this Halloween.

Dracula came in second place for sexiest male costume with 13% of the vote.

Least spellbinding ensemble for women goes to the witch (1%) and the pumpkin (2%).

For men the scarecrow (1%) and Jigsaw (2%) outfits are the least sexy.

Zara a female member on IllicitEncounters.com said “Halloween is all about sex appeal. Witches and cats are super lazy and unoriginal. Personally, I love pulling out all the stops, I’m talking apocalyptic, death-defying, seductive, zombie warrior princess! Let’s get a little bloody and gory in 8-inch heels and stockings, who doesn’t love playing dress up? It’s just a bit of adult fun.”

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Jessica Leoni comments “The Joker with Harley Quinn by his side is a given this Halloween. The recent Joker movie has broken box office records as highest grossing R-rated movie ever – and for good reason. The outfits can also be easily replicated with a bit of home DIY so it’s super easy to get involved.

Dracula coming in second place is unsurprising, a staple on Halloween. There’s something supernaturally appealing about vampires, the cape with the fangs, and promise of immortality. Dracula is just inherently sexy.

I was expecting the devil to come in high for women, the outfit is provocative.I’m visualising red corset, miniskirt and fishnets with shiny red stilettos –horns on the head and a devilish fork – why, hello princess of darkness.

Nobody wants to see men dressed as scarecrows on Halloween, this isn’t Wizard of Oz. And I think I’m with the men when it comes to witches, it’s just such an uninteresting costume”

Results

Sexiest Female Halloween Costumes
Harley Quinn 17%
Devil 14%
Zombie 13%
Vampire 11%
Scary Nurse 9%
Bunny 8%
Cat 6%
Corpse bride 4%
Pirate 4%
Clown 3%
Skeleton 3%
Ghost 3%
Pumpkin 2%
Witch 1%
Other 2%

Sexiest Male Halloween Costumes
Joker 20%
Dracula 13%
Scary Doctor 10%
Zombie  9%
Devil 7%
Frankenstein 6%
Reaper 5%
Beetlejuice 5%
Pirate 4%
Clown 4%
Pumpkin 4%
Skeleton 3%
Ghost 3%
Pinhead 3%
Jigsaw 2%
Scarecrow 1%
Other 1%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Polish are top European love cheats

•         More than a quarter of European adulterers in the UK are Polish
•         19% of the Irish population in the UK and 14% of Romanians are cheating
•         Greeks are the most faithful European nationals in the UK
•         Data released by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people

Could adultery have a nationality? Statistics released by Illicit Encounters gives insight into 2500 of its non-British EU members, revealing the nationalities most likely to be having an affair in the UK.

More than a quarter of adulterers in Britain are of Polish descent (26%)

According to the Office of National Statistics Polish is the most common non-British nationality in the UK since 2007, making up 15% of the total non-British residents* indicative as to why there may be more Polish cheating compared to other non-British nationals.

Second non-British EU national cheating in the UK is Irish with 19% and Romanians come in third place at 14%

The results found that Greeks represent the most faithful non-British EU nationals with only 1% currently having an affair in the UK, followed by Estonians (2%) and Danish (2%)

Lukasz a male member from Poland using the site said “Yes, I am Polish. Yes, I am having an affair. What is the big deal? In my culture we marry young, we have family – divorce is not an option. Most men in long-term relationships, no matter the nationality – are cheating or being cheated on. That is just the state of affairs.”

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Jessica Leoni said “There is a lot more Polish in the UK than any other nationality, and why should they be missing out on all the fun? Poland has strong traditional values, especially when it comes to family – and we do find a lot of people cheat as an alternative to divorce, ensuring that families remain together. Europeans in general have much more liberal views when it comes to sex and relationships and the Polish are no different.

Why aren’t the Greek cheating? Perhaps they’re more willing to put up with unhappy marriages. Or maybe they’re simply following the advice of Socrates who is credited with saying “by all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher.’”

Results
Poland 26%
Ireland 19%
Romania 14%
Italy 8%
Spain 7%
France 5%
Portugal 4%
Germany 4%
Slovakia 3%
Finland 3%
Denmark 2%
Estonia 2%
Greek 1%
Other 2%

*Office of National Statistics – Population of the UK by country of birth and nationality

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Accountants Voted Best Between the Sheets

  • 8 out of 10 women say accountants are best lovers under the covers
  • Founders/entrepreneurs come in close second as most beddable
  • Women find male models and butchers least sexy
  • Results come from survey of 2500 female members by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

78% of women rank accountants as the number one profession to get hot and steamy under the covers in a recent survey by IllicitEncounters.com

Top reasons given by women for wanting to bed an accountant is that they are good in bed, great at dirty talk and don’t finish first. The study indicates that accountants make selfless lovers that focus all their attention on their partner.

Founders/entrepreneurs came in close second place as most beddable with 71% of the vote, and actors third with 68%

Shockingly male models came in second to last with only 7% of women agreeing this profession is good in bed.

Butchers scored the least votes with only 2%

Annabelle a member on IllicitEncounters.com said “Accountants are hot, come on! Someone who is that good with numbers clearly has amazing attention to detail. Good things come to those who wait, and great sex is about patience and communication. For women it isn’t just about the physical either, orgasmic pleasure needs a connection of minds.”

Siobhan another member using the site recalls “I did spend the night once with a male model and I can only describe it as awkward. Not only did I feel super insecure, the whole affair was clumsy and lacked chemistry.”

Relationship expert at IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni comments “Butchers are not sexy. Not only has everybody and their neighbour gone vegan over recent years, but butchers and sex just evoke Hannibal-esque erotica to me – no thanks!

Male models on the other hand, sexy on paper, kind of intimidating in real life. Models live a jet setting lifestyle which also leaves little time to build a genuine relationship.

Accountants are number one because they are thoughtful lovers who are willing to try new things. Experimentation in bed really keeps the passion alive. Freakiness, dirty talk and not finishing first – what more could you want?

The study shows that women are attracted to men who are not only financially endowed but also time-rich – meaning they pay more attention to their date. It takes a confident man to focus more on our pleasure than their own, and that is damn sexy.”
Judging by profession only, do you think this profession is good in bed?

Accountant 78%
Founder/Entrepreneur 71 %
Actor 68%
Engineer 66%
Pilot 59%
Firefighter  57%
Doctor 49%
Teacher 44%
Bar tender 39%
Military 38%
Lawyer 29%
Military 19%
Office Worker 18%
Garbage Disposal man 17%
Retail 11%
Personal Trainer 10%
Police Officer 8%
Model 7%
Butcher 2%

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Women who love yoga cheat on their husbands

 

–  More than half of female cheats go to yoga, and it’s not to lose weight
–  Running scores second place for top fitness hobby
–  Women confess that yoga has improved their sex lives
–  Research conducted by married-dating website IllicitEncounters.com, shows that cyclists and
swimmers are the least likely to cheat

Leading dating site for married people IllicitEncounters.com surveyed 2000 of its female members
asking if they took up a sport or hobby for a minimum of 2 hours per week since embarking on an
affair. 1168 polled said yes, and over half of those chose to take up yoga.

78% of women who go to yoga also admit that the hobby has improved their sex life.

Running came second place with 20% and tennis with a respectable 14%.

The findings also indicated that women were far less likely to take up cycling (2%) or swimming (3%).

The research by IllicitEncounters.com found that the most popular reason for taking up a new sport
or hobby was to try something new (26%) and to build confidence (21%).
Stress relief came in at only 6% and getting fit or losing weight came second to last reason with only
8% of the vote.

Saskia a female member on IllicitEncounters.com “I needed more excuses to get out of the house
and spend less time with my husband. One day a work colleague suggested we try yoga, I wasn’t
expecting to enjoy it, least of all become a full-blown yogi. Yoga has changed my life – it promotes
mindfulness, reduces stress, helps strengthen your core and develops your mental and spiritual
growth.

Yoga makes you feel better about yourself. I have a lover; he’s interested in meditation. Sometimes
we go to the park and teach each other breathing techniques and yoga postures. Yoga will make you
stronger and more flexible than you can imagine, and the sex; let’s just say, there’s a whole new
meaning to downward facing dog”

Monica another female member said “I must admit I didn’t realise my affair coincided with me
starting yoga until now. My affair has been life changing, but I was still craving more. I’ve found that
I needed an entire lifestyle overhaul.

I’ve not only just taken up yoga, I’ve also become vegan, and I’ve even started painting again – which
is something I used to really enjoy. My life was so unbalanced. I was giving all of myself to my
husband and family, so much so that I completely lost who I am. It’s a little bit like the change you
seek when you go through a breakup – I don’t know who I am anymore! Then you go through this
metamorphosis and blossom into a whole new person.”

lllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “An affair gives you that honey-
moon buzz that begins to fade from a long-term marriage. That buzz is the catalyst to self-
improvement; wanting to try new things, build confidence and make new friends. Dating someone
new brings out our adventurous side.

Women are taking up yoga to continue to boost their self-esteem after rebuilding their confidence
through an affair. I’m not at all shocked that swimming and cycling is bottom of the list, these sports
are lonely and not sexy – you would engage in these sports to lose weight only. Whereas yoga and
sex go hand in hand, add a partner into the mix and what do we have? The Kamasutra. Namaste.”

Sport or hobby taken up by female love cheats
Yoga 52%
Running 20%
Tennis 14%
Going Gym 7%
Swimming 3%
Cycling 2%
Other 2%
What is your reason for starting a new sport or hobby?
To try something new 26%
To build confidence 21%
To meet new people 17%
To spend less time with my husband 12%
Influenced by my lover 10%
To get fit or lose weight 8%
Stress relief 6%

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

The 10 biggest sex secrets men and women keep from their partners have been revealed

 

 

* Women’s biggest secret is regularly faking orgasms;

* Men’s biggest secret is fantasising about having sex with other women;

* Results are from a new survey of 2,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people

 

The 10 biggest sex secrets that men and women keep from their partners have been revealed.

Women’s most popular secret is faking an orgasm. 

Eight out of ten women (82%) have done this and a third (32%) say they do this on a regular basis with a long-term partner.

Men’s most popular secret is to fantasise about having sex with another woman, particularly a previous partner.

Nine out of ten men (91%) said they regularly reminisce fondly about previous sexual encounters and half do this (53%) even when they are having sex with their current partner.

The results are revealed in a new survey of 2,000 men and women, split evenly between the sexes, by IllicitEncounters.com, the leading dating site for married people.

The second most popular female sex secret was flirting with a work colleague or friend – 74% of women have done this and kept it a secret from their partner.

In third place was revealing the real number of men they have slept with – 62% of women have kept this a secret.

In fourth place was actually cheating on their partner – 53% of women have kept an act of infidelity secret. This could be kissing, something more intimate or full sex.

Fifth place was fantasising about sex with another man or previous partner – 51% of women do this.

The second most popular male sex secret was also flirting with a work colleague or friend – 83% of men have done this.

In third place was using porn – 74% of men keep this secret from their partners.

Fourth place for men was an act of infidelity. Almost two-thirds of men (62%) have done this – far higher than the female figure.

Men’s fifth biggest secret was monitoring the behaviour of their previous partners on social media – more than half of men (58%) do this.

lllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “We all have sex secrets that we would rather our partner does not discover.

“What is fascinating is that cheating features heavily in the top ten of both sexes.

“This may not be a full blown affair but almost of all of us enjoy attention from members of the opposite sex, whether this is banter at work or a snog at the office do.

“That banter tends to only turn into sex if there are problems at home, particularly in the bedroom.”

More than one million people have registered with IllicitEncounters.com since it was founded 16 years.

The typical female members has six separate ‘affairs’ or sexual encounters a year – most commonly with a married male executive earning an average of £62,000 a year.

The typical male member has five affairs or sexual encounters a year with different women who earn an average of £47,000 a year.

 

Women’s 10 biggest sex secrets they keep from their partner

 

1 Faking an orgasm (82% of women have done this)

2 Flirting with a work colleague or friend (74%)

3 Revealing the real number of men they have slept with (62%)

4 Cheating on a partner (53%)

5 Fantasising about sex with another man or previous partner (51%)

6 Masturbating (48%)

7 Monitoring a previous partner on social media (47%)

8  Using porn (37%)

9 Saying I love you when you don’t mean it (32%)

10 My friends don’t really like him (31%)

 

Men’s 10 biggest sex secrets they keep from their partner 

 

1 Fantasising about sex with another man or previous partner (91%)

2 Flirting with a work colleague or friend (83%) 

3 Using porn (74%)

4 Cheating on a partner (62%)

5 Monitoring a previous partner on social media (58%)

6 Masturbating (57%)

7 My friends don’t really like her (36%)

8 Saying I love you when you don’t mean it  (34%)

9 A sexual encounter with another man (22%)

10 Desire a threesome with current partner and another woman (21%)

 


NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Having More Than One Baby Likely To Result In Adultery

  • Don’t want your partner to cheat on you? Stop at baby number 1 – brownie points if it’s a girl
  • 86% of adulterers cheat after having child number 2
  • Men with daughters are far less likely to stray with only 23% admitting to cheating
  • 39% of parents have affairs because they need an escape
  • Results are from a survey conducted by UK’s leading married-dating website IllicitEncounters.com

Only 14% of cheats have one offspring, revealing that stopping at baby number one could be the answer to longevity in monogamous relationships for first time parents.

Results are from a 2019 study conducted on 2000 members of IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people.

Men are most likely to cheat on their partner if they have become bored with sex or because of the lack of sexual activity in their relationship. However, the study also discovered that men with daughters living at home are less likely to stray then men with no children at home or only sons.

The report revealed that it made little or no difference to female love cheats whether they had sons or daughters, however women were slightly more likely to cheat on their partners if they had no children at living at home with them.

The poll discovered that of all the men who have indulged in extra marital affairs only 23% of them had daughters living at home. Compared with 46% of men who had strayed who had no kids at home when their affairs began and just 31% of male love rogues who had only sons living with them.

The figures were quite different for women where the report finds that women are far less likely to stray if they have children living at home.  Of those women surveyed who have ever strayed, only 32% had children living at home. 68% of female love cheats only strayed when they had no kids living with them. Having sons or daughters living at home did not factor into women’s decisions about having affairs – 16% of those surveyed had sons.

Sarah a member on IllicitEncounters.com said ‘They say threes a crowd, try four. One baby, two toddlers and one teenager, and that’s not counting my husband who sometimes feels like another big kid. I love my family; I really do and there was a time I was very happy with my husband. We used to have adventures together, and when we had our first daughter life felt complete. It was busy sure, but in amongst the nappy changes and the sleepless nights we still found time for each other. Then came baby number 2, 3 and 4 – and poof goes my identity.

No romance, no candlelit dinners, no weekend city breaks. The only communication I have with my husband these days is to ensure the smooth running of our family schedule. That’s why I’ve chosen to have a secret life and seek out pleasure. My other man makes me feel desired again, something I have craved for such a long time. I can be Sarah – the woman, not just mum.’

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Jessica Leoni said ‘Want more than one baby? You’re asking for an affair. Baby number one is the Golden Child, a whole new love bubble that you can share with your significant other. If you want to have a more satisfying relationship, having one child gives you a better chance to put effort into you and your relationship.

Raising more children results in higher stress levels and less alone time with the hubby, it’s more demanding but less exciting because you’ve done it all before. Men and women are finding that having an affair is the only way to escape from parenthood and feel like themselves again.

The only exception is if a man has daughters living at home. Men are far more likely to consider their daughters feelings above their wives when contemplating affairs because of possible long-term emotional effects on their daughters.’

 

Top 4 reasons for parents cheating

Need an escape 39%

Lack of sex in marriage 33%

Lack emotional intimacy in marriage 22%

Other 6%

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

Illicitencounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1.2 million genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 15 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

More Females Cheating than Ever

* 20% increase in female love cheats

* Biggest spike in 35-45 year old love rats

* Record breaking female sign ups to married dating website IllicitEncounters.com
Since summer 2018 there has been a shocking 20% increase of married women choosing to find sexual liaisons online with men that are not their husbands.

Over the past year lllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading extra-marital affairs site, has seen a huge increase of women signing up to their website – with data analyses predicting 2019 to break female sign up records.

The research also indicated that the biggest spike of women joining was in the age category of 35-45 years old – accounting for more than half of the increase in wedded women seeking affairs.

The study also polled 800 of its new female members on IllicitEncounters.com about what their reasons were for wanting to cheat on their partner and found that 31% of females felt they needed an adventure, and 23% were seeking an affair because they were unwilling or unable to have sex with their spouse.

Although the divorce rate in the UK is falling, recent studies reveal that infidelity is on the rise.  Historically men are more likely to cheat than women. However, IllicitEncounters.com has found that attitudes towards adultery are changing.

Experts put this down to the rise in acceptance of female empowerment and equality. TV programs such as ITV’s Love Island actively promote parity between male and female contestants to seek as many sexual liaisons as they wish in their search for a relationship. The popularity of such programmes could potentially be a catalyst towards the 20% increase of woman cheating since last summer.

Joanna a female member using IllicitEncounters.com said ‘I’m cheating because I simply require more sex than my husband is willing to provide, and I feel deprived. Honestly, married life is just the process isn’t it? School, career, husband, house, baby – it’s a checklist. There are other boxes that I need ticked, and sex is one of them – and if sex isn’t on the agenda with my husband, I will look for it somewhere else.’

Jessica Leoni, relationship expert from IllicitEncounters.com said ‘More woman cheat because they can. Once you get a taste for forbidden fruit, that’s all you’ll want from the menu.

We’re teased left right and centre with sex exposure from the media, I know for one that Love Island’s got plenty of my female friends hot under the collar.

It’s exciting isn’t it? All the devilish debauchery! Women are beginning to realise they deserve more, and our female comrades are right beside us to help nurture and encourage our illicit fantasies. The data clearly reveals that female adulterers are more like explorers on the hunt for a new adventure when married life becomes stale.

I think it’s great that ladies are having this shift in consciousness and exploring their sexuality – as Lou Reed once sung, “hey babe, take a walk on the wild side”’

 

Below are the top six reasons given by women for cheating on their partner:

1.       In need of an adventure 31%
2.       Unwilling or unable to have sex with spouse 23%
3.       I don’t want to leave my partner 18%
4.       I don’t feel appreciated at home 12%
5.       Seeking emotional connection 9%
6.       Other 7%

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

Illicitencounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1.2 million genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 15 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer