Over a quarter of married couples are OK with their partner cheating

·        26% of spouses are OK with their partner cheating!

·        Women more likely to give an affair the green light

·        Research conducted by the UK’s top extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com
It seems that views regarding monogamy are rapidly changing as more married couples opt to open their relationships and become more open and honest with each other.

IllicitEncounters.com polled 2700 of its members asking them “Has your spouse given you permission to cheat?”

A staggering 26% of those surveyed confirmed that their spouse is OK with them cheating.

The study reveals that 12% of adulterers have actually received permission from their partner to date outside of their marriage.

8% of adulterers have a mutual agreement with their spouse that allows them to enjoy an affair, and 6% admit their partner turns a blind eye.

61% of members that were allowed to stray were men, indicating that women are more likely to allow their husbands to cheat.

Diana, a current member using the site, said “My husband and I have been together for 17 years. We’ve worked hard at a good life, raised 2 fantastic kids who’ve long flown the nest; life has been kind to us. My husband is my best friend, but we have lost interest in each other sexually, although we do still sleep in the same bed every night that we’re together.

Five years ago, after a friends dinner party we had a heart-to-heart and admitted we were lacking passion and desire, and we took the risk and decided to open up our relationship. It has really worked well for us. We don’t share any of the intimate details, we’re discreet in order to respect each other’s feelings, and when we are together we simply carry on with our marital life.

I would recommend an affair to any couple in a similar situation, it’s actually brought us closer together. If you can’t be honest, even about the deepest and darkest of needs and desires, then you’re always, always going to feel trapped.”

lllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said “Relationships shouldn’t have stipulations, can’t do this, can’t do that. No wonder more and more couples are engaging in some extra-marital fun! It’s no secret that affairs have been going on since the beginning of time, I think it’s great to see they are becoming a little more socially acceptable.

What we know about love and marriage is outdated, and old fashioned. I am pleased to see that men and women in the UK are challenging what we’ve ever been taught about commitment and true love.”
Results

Has your spouse given you permission to cheat?

Absolutely not! They’d leave me if they knew 74%
I have permission to cheat 12%
We have a mutual agreement 8%
My spouse turns a blind eye 6%
NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Jessica Leoni through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

If your spouse drives a German car, they may be having an affair

* German cars are the most popular with adulterers
* Volkswagen number one car for cheating men, and Mercedes for cheating women
* Fiat is the least favourite car for affair-seekers
* More than half of women claim a man’s car affects his dateability
* Survey conducted by the UK’s largest extra marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com

Is it possible to tell an adulterer by the vehicle they drive? IllicitEncounters.com surveyed 2500 of its members, asking them which brand of car they are currently driving.

Volkswagen wins the crown with 22%, as the top cheating car driven by men in the UK. It comes as no surprise, as Volkswagen, based in Wolfsburg, Germany, announce record sales for last year.

Mercedes is the number one car driven by affair seeking women (20%).

BMW comes in second for both men and women, with 18% and 17% respectively.

The car least driven by cheating men and women is the Fiat, with only 0.2% combined.

Flashy cars and sex appeal have always gone well together, with research even indicating having a nice car can change you from a 4/10 to an 8/10, with 58% of women claiming a man’s car affects his dateability.*

Car manufacturers are aware of this and will often sexualise their adverts, with Mercedes previously advertising their fleet of cars, in a now banned, infidelity advert.

Top Cheating Cars Driven by Men

Volkswagen 22%
BMW 18%
Mercedes 17%
Jaguar 15%
Audi 11%
Ford 8%
Other 9%
Top Cheating Cars Driven by Women

Mercedes 20%
BMW 17%
Audi 16%
Mini 15%
Kia 13%
Vauxhall 9%
Other 10%
Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Jessica Leoni said “The car you drive speaks volumes about your personality. The results indicate that adulterers tend to be affluent and successful, willing to invest in good quality. This attitude extends to our drivers marital lives, where having an affair is a luxury for men and women who are unwilling to settle for mediocrity.

The top three automobiles for both men and women are from German manufacturers, designed for their comfort, style and practicality.

German cars have always dominated the market, and have especially been glamorised recently by hip hop artists in songs such as German by artist EO, or Meridan Dan’s – German Whip. This notoriety of German cars in the charts could also lend a hand at their popularity. After all, adulterers want the best of the best – best car, spouse, lover…and why not?”

*Survey by Select Car Leasing

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Saucy New Year Bucket List

* Phone sex is the number one sexual adventure we’d like to try in 2020
* Men say yes to sex in public, no to role-play
* Women say no to threesomes, but yes to foreplay
* Survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra-marital dating site

We’ve heard it all before – lose weight, save more, drink less – it’s the same old resolutions every year.

Rather than focus on the obvious, IllicitEncounters.com put the vote to 800 of it’s users with a slightly different kind of poll – what sexy bedroom adventures would they most like to explore in 2020.

400 men and 400 women were questioned on whether they would like to try out any of the following sex adventures in 2020 and here are the results.

Top sexual adventure for men to explore in the bedroom is sex in public 90%, a stark contrast to women, of which only 34% were interested in ticking this adventure off their bucket list. Close second adventure for men is hotel sex with 88% of the vote.

Top sexual adventure for women to explore in the bedroom is foreplay 92%, followed by phone sex 82%

Men would least like to try out role play 32% and women would least like to engage in a threesome 24%

Phone sex is the top sexual fantasy for men and women combined with 80.5% of men and women wanting to try phone sex in 2020.

Sexy New Year Bucket List

Sex in Public
Men – 90% said yes
Women – 34% said yes

Usually explored in the honeymoon period of a relationship when you simply cannot keep your hands off each other. It’s naughty and dangerous, not to mention subject to nudity and decency laws – not one for the fainthearted! My recommendation is to find somewhere isolated and discrete for those wanting to try sex in public for the very first time, before you join the expert level mile high club.

Role-play
Men – 32% said yes
Women – 41% said yes

Getting involved in role-play is the ultimate way to express yourself in the bedroom and acting out any adventurous sexual fantasies you may have. Decide on a scenario and roles prior and play dress up to make the experience more authentic, think doctors and nurses, coppers and robbers – whatever tickles your fancy.

Bondage
Men – 55% said yes
Women – 37% said yes

A great way to explore your kinkier side. It’ll get you communicating better in the bedroom and discovering all sorts of thrilling things you may have not even realised you were into. Rihanna got it right in her S&M track – “sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me.”

Phone sex
Men – 79% said yes
Women – 82% said yes

Nothing beats this old time classic. Imagine a long night ahead of you apart from your lover, what better way to close the distance then a naughty call? Dirty talk is an art, and a timeless sexy adventure. Now you can turn up the heat by switching on the camera too, to add that extra dimension to this fantasy.

Hotel Sex
Men – 88% said yes
Women – 70% said yes

Everybody loves a bit of off-duty fun, and booking a hotel to have some romantic adventures with your significant other is the best way to enjoy some one on one adult fun. Picture this, booking a room by the hour and texting your partner, “I’m waiting for you in Room 609 baby…hurry” – undeniably sexy.

New Sex Positions
Men – 84% said yes
Women – 71% said yes

Kama Sutra – why not? If you always rely on missionary, mixing it up a little will add so much more to your sex life.

Threesome
Men – 65% said yes
Women – 24% said yes

Some may say that three is in fact – the magic number. Inviting a third person into the party can be exhilarating, fun, and full of discoveries. Make sure that you have some boundaries and rules laid out with your partner before giving this one a shot, and if everybody is game this bucket list must have guarantees a night of racy fun.

Foreplay
Men – 68% said yes
Women – 92% said yes

None of this wham, bam, thank you mam – foreplay is essential for good sex! Spending more time playing before hand and getting each other aroused creates anticipation and sexual energy that is bound to make the act of love making a whole lot more satisfying.

Dress up & Strip off
Men – 74% said yes
Women – 68% said yes

The Full Monty? Yes please. Dressing up and performing a strip tease is going to get anybody’s pulses racing. Invest in some erotic clothing or lingerie and step outside of your comfort zone – not only does playing dress up build your confidence, it’s a sure way to turn your partner on.

IllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said “A new year signifies new opportunities and why shouldn’t that extend to our bedroom fantasies. Whether you’re in a stale relationship that needs some spice, or single and ready to mingle – giving the sexy New Year bucket list a try this year is a must!”

 

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

The top 12 Sexy Christmas Positions 

 

• The public have voted on which Christmas Sex Position of 2019 they enjoy the most
• Dirty Santa favourite festive position, with the Lazy Snowman close second
• Mistletoe Madness and the Sleigh Ride tie as least favourite positions
• Survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading extra-marital dating site
It’s the season to be merry, and ho-ho merry we will be. For a bit of festive fun IllicitEncounters.com, the leading married dating site in the UK, created 12 Christmas inspired sex positions and 600 of its members voted on the ones they liked the most.
The results found the Dirty Santa to be the favourite with 16% of the vote, closely followed by the Lazy Snowman (15%).
In bottom place comes the Mistletoe Madness and the Sleigh Ride both with only 3% loving this position.
Results in order of preference
The Dirty Santa
The dirty Santa involves your lover perched on a chair and you sitting atop his lap with your back facing towards him. This position allows for a lot of intimate interaction, your partner can kiss the nape of your neck and touch you all over while you make love, you can even guide his hands to where you’d like them – this is a great position to explore your dominant side.
The Lazy Snowman
Here you want to lie on your side with your partner spooning you from behind and allow yourself to really slow down the pace. We all know there is much fun and frolics during the winter season, and this position is perfect for those lazy mornings after the night before.
The Fetish Fir Tree
You want to begin in the classic missionary position, and then lift your legs above your head and over your lover’s shoulders reaching up to the sky like a Christmas tree. Again, this position gives you the benefit of deeper penetration and thus contributing to heightened sexual satisfaction.
The Tinsel Tease
Who says tinsel can’t be practical as well as pretty? Enjoy some festive fornication with tinsel as rope for some bondage fun! What you want to do is have you or your partner lie starfish on the bed and tie your wrists and ankles to the headboard – once strapped in prepare for some titillating fun as one of you submits and lets your partner control all the pleasure.
Rudolph the Red Nose Bad Deer
This position is a spin off the traditional doggy-style where you kneel on the ground on all fours and your partner enters you from behind. This position gives your partner the perfect angle to really stimulate your erogenous zone.
The Jingle Balls
Straddle him while in the cowgirl position, and very slowly lean back, using one of your hands you are then able to give some attention to the jingle balls. The reason it’s best to do this slowly is because the movement creates more depth for penetration maximising the pleasure for both parties involved.
The Elf on the Shelf
In order to make this position work you will need a counter or a hard surface to use as a prop. You perch yourself onto of the surface (things like kitchen cabinets and tabletops work especially great here!)and  facing each other have your partner enter you while standing up.
Naughty Mrs. Claus
Have your partner sit crossed-legged propping himself up with his hands behind his back, straddle him on your knees and use a rocking back and forth motion – this position relinquishes all control from your lover and puts the power into your hands.
The Surprise Present
The surprise present requires an element of – you guessed it, surprise! With your partner blinded folded sitting upright, straddle him and give him the, eherm, ride of his life. You can create a sense of anticipation by using objects such as feathers to stroke him with before intercourse in order to give him lots of different sensations – you’d be surprise how much more sensitive everything is with a blindfold on.
The Bouncing Bauble
This position involves a slightly unexpected prop – you guessed it yet? No, I didn’t think so. What you want to do is dig out that exercise ball from 1996 that’s never really seen that much activity and incorporate it into a sexercise routine. Lie down on the exercise ball front facing and embrace it with your arms and legs, having your partner enter from behind while standing. This position really helps stimulate the g-spot and can make for an intense orgasm.
Mistletoe Madness
This position does require a little more effort than some of the others in the top twelve and may not work for every couple. In order to give it a shot, you want to stand facing your partner and have him lift you up and then wrap your legs around his waist, he will then have to support you using the strength in his arms to control the motions. This position is up close and personal giving the couple an opportunity to kiss often – mistletoe optional.
The Sleigh Ride 
Come on, it’s lovely weather for a sleigh ride together with you! In this position you want to lie on your front on the bed half on half off with your partner entering you from behind while holding onto your waist. This position is great if you’re staying over at the in-laws for Xmas as it’s the most likely to silence any awkward creaky bed noises and puts you at ease that your love making is well and truly discrete.
Full Results Below
The Dirty Santa 16%
The Lazy Snowman 15%
The Fetish Fir Tree 12%
The Tinsel Tease 10%
Rudolph the Red Nose Bad Tree 9%
The Jingle Balls 8%
The Elf on the Shelf 7%
Naughty Mrs. Clause 6%
The Surprise Present 6%
The Bouncing Bauble 5%
Mistletoe Madness 3%
The Sleigh Ride 3%

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Boris Johnson Voted Most Bed-able Politician

· Boris Johnson voted most bed-able politician
· Adulterers would divorce their partners for Green party leaders Jonathan Bartley and Siân Berry
· Politician we’d most like to avoid is Nigel Farage
· Poll run by IllicitEncounters.comthe UK’s leading dating website for married people

With politics in disarray and nobody quite sure what’s going on with Brexit, one thing is for certain that the race for a seat as a member of parliament has become a popularity contest.

Who to trust to lead our country into prosperity? IllicitEncounters.com put the vote to 1200 of its members with a slightly different kind of poll – asking who they would like to cheat with, divorce their spouse for or avoid. Afterall, cheating and politics has often gone hand in hand.

The poll indicates most women would cheat with Boris Johnson (47%) and more than half of men would be unfaithful with Jo Swinson (51%).

Both Green Party leaders won the divorce spouse for category. Jonathan Bartley came top for women (35%) and Siân Berry for men (22%).

More politicians then ever ranked high in the avoid category with Nigel Farage scoring the highest with 82% of women choosing to avoid him, closely followed by Jeremy Corbyn 74%, Arlene Foster 71% and Nicola Sturgeon 65%. Such high avoid scores suggest that our collective impression of politicians, in general, currently fairs quite low.

Full details of winners are listed below:

Have an affair with

Boris Johnson
Marital Status: It’s Complicated

“The Tory leader has set pulses racing as the most bed-able politician in the upcoming elections. No surprise there, Bojo oozes irresistible charm and he can make a woman laugh – humour goes a long way. Some might even say, one minute you’re laughing, next minute your clothes are off! Boris is a man of his word, or lack thereof, regularly avoiding an interview with Scottish broadcaster Andrew Neil – making him a very discrete affair candidate. Women are safe in the knowledge he can keep things under wraps – including how many kids that he’s fathered.

We can all agree Bojo is a bit like marmite, whether you love him or hate him – it’s safe to say he does attract a lot of attention. Who knows, perhaps Boris could even teach us a thing or two about pole dancing, what a tease.”

Jo Swinson
Marital Status: Married

“Jo Swinson is a natural affair-seekers choice. She is genuine, full of life and inspirational, with a charming Scottish accent to boot. She is also the youngest and only female to ever hold the position of leader of the Lib Dems – this kind of ambition is very attractive. Jo is relatively new to the role, but there is no disputing, that the Swinson Surge truly extends to who voters would most want to cheat on their spouse with.”

Would have a divorce for

Jonathan Bartley
Marital Status: Separated

“Oh, Jonathan. The co-leader of the Green party, and a born and bred Londoner, it is no surprise many women have voted to leave their husbands for him. Jonathan is irresistible, good-looking, with a cracking smile and confidence without the cockiness. To top it off he’s in a band! No matter the age, women will always fall at the feet of a Rockstar. Jonathan is the drummer for the blues rock band the Mustangs and even played Glasto a couple of years ago. Swoon.”

Siân Berry
Marital Status: Single

“Miss Berry the Green goddess, eco warrior once described as ‘environmental viagra’. A blonde, blue eyed beauty – with a lovely smile, not only that but Siân is smart and articulate – it is unsurprising men are drawn to her. Siân embodies the epitome of a strong and confident woman.”

Avoid

Nigel Farage
Marital Status: Married

“Leader of the Brexit party, Nigel is not winning any popularity contests anytime soon. Mr. Farage gives off a demeanour of a villain with controversial views on firearms and immigration. He simply does not appeal to women for any type of romance.”

Arlene Foster
Marital Status: Married

“The northern Irish politician ranks highest in the avoid category for men. Being a married mother of three could easily contribute to her lack of sex appeal for men.”

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353 986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

How faithful is your star sign?

• Capricorns crowned top cheating star sign
• Sagittarius’ are the most faithful
• 14% of adulterers are cheating on a Leo
• Data released by the UK’s top extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com

Could cheating be written in the stars? IllicitEncounters.com analysed data of 180,000 of its married members and found that the zodiac may have a lot to say about infidelity.

Capricorns topped the charts with 16% of cheaters belonging to this star sign, closely followed by Libra’s with 13%.

Want your partner to remain faithful? Dating a Sagittarius secures monogamy with only 4% of archers currently cheating on their partner.

Other star signs less likely to cheat are Aquarius (5%) and Pieces (5%)

2000 members were also asked what star sign their spouse was, and a phenomenal 14% reported that their married to a Leo.

Natasha a Capricorn currently using the site said “I’d had it up to here with my husband last year. You see, my birthday is on the 24th of December, and my husband plans me a rubbish – buy one get one free Christmas slash birthday gift – every, single, year! What a way to make you feel appreciated.

I decided enough was enough, and as an extra special birthday treat to myself – I decided to have an affair. Heck, best decision I’ve ever made, and guess what, the other guy I’m seeing has already promised me a birthday out of this world, and that’s alongside my Christmas present. For once I’m looking forward to the winter break.”

Jennifer a Libra on the site who is currently having an affair said “My husband is a Leo. In many ways he’s the perfect partner, father and provider. He’s always working hard, he’s great with the kids and he does put in effort into our relationship. Having said that, he drives me completely and utterly insane half the time, he’s a perfectionist, can’t let things go and often obsesses. Sometimes it’s nice to just escape from him, away from everything serious and just let my hair down and have fun.”

Jessica spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com adds “Capricorns are earth signs who are extremely practical. When a Capricorn is in a marriage that is not making them entirely happy their solution is to go seek that happiness elsewhere. Being practical, Capricorns are more than capable of compartmentalising their affair and are great at keeping secrets and are therefore unlikely to get caught cheating.

Sagittarius’ belong to the fire element, and they are fiercely independent, which may come as a shock that so few Sagittarius’ are unfaithful. Although known to be adventures, risky and sociable, once a Sagittarius makes a commitment, they stick to it. A Sagittarius is always on the search for sex, love and relationships, however they are more inclined to escape an unhappy marriage, than look for some extra-marital fun; multi-dating is not their forte.

Why are Leo’s everywhere being cheated on – isn’t it obvious? Leo’s are passionate star signs, very competitive and ambitious, and naturally extremely stubborn. When your partner always wants to get their own way, it’s only natural that you need to get yours too, elsewhere.”

Results
Capricorn 16%
Libra 13%
Cancer 11%
Taurus 9%
Gemini 8%
Leo 8%
Scorpio 8%
Aries 7%
Virgo 6%
Pisces 5%
Aquarius 5%
Sagittarius 4%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 0207 729 6098

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Cheaters less likely to forgive an affair

•         8 out of 10 adulterers would divorce their partner if they discovered their partner was also cheating
•         Over half of adulterers would rather be lied to about their partners infidelity
•          More people agree watching pornography is worse than flirting
•          Study released by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading dating website for married people

2000 members on extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com were polled on whether they would forgive their partners infidelity, as it turns out a whopping 8 out of 10 spouses agree they would leave their partners upon discovery of their indiscretions.

The results also indicated that cheaters would prefer not to know if they are also being cheated on, with 58% agreeing they’d much rather be left in the dark. Suggesting that cheating is OK if it’s kept under wraps.

100% of those surveyed affirmed that physical intimacy is considered being unfaithful, as well as cyber cheating (94%)

More members agreed that watching pornography is to be considered unfaithful (21%) compared to only 14% agreeing that flirting is unfaithful.

Erica a member on IllicitEncounters.com said “I’m having an affair for attention; my husband of 14 years now genuinely believes quality time together is watching the telly on a Saturday night. I love my husband and would never leave him but when your husband treats you with indifference what more can you do? I could literally walk into the room naked and he wouldn’t notice.  So yes, if I found out my husband’s lack of attention towards me was being bestowed upon a mistress, I would certainly up and leave”

Olivia another female member using the site said “I’d rather he was having an affair, that I never found out about. What I have outside of my marriage is just a bit of fun and excitement and I’m careful to keep it separate, I don’t want to break up my marriage. Some may call it double standards, but if he was out sleeping with other women and foolish enough to get caught – I’d feel more disrespected that he couldn’t keep it a secret. Have a little flirt if you have to – just be discrete about it.’

Jessica Leoni, spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It takes a lot to reach that point of realisation that you require more from life than your marriage is capable of providing.

Many people find solace and happiness in extra-marital relationships, but fundamentally treat it as a secret escape, separate from the day-to-day grind of their full time lives. Which comes as no surprise as to why cheaters would prefer not to find out that their other half was also having an affair, c’est la vie! If it’s kept secret it can’t hurt anybody.

What is a little shocking is that so many adulterers would file for divorce if they found out their partner was cheating, it seems the discovery is more painful than the act itself though – so we always recommend hiding your tracks.

On the plus side, flirting is okay! For banter’s sake.”

Results

Do you consider the following to be unfaithful?
Physical Intimacy – 100% agreed
Cyber cheating – 94% agreed
Sexting – 86% agreed
Emotional cheating – 74% agreed
Watching Pornography – 21% agreed
Flirting – 14% agreed

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Sexiest Halloween Costumes 2019

• Harley Quinn voted hottest Halloween outfit for women
• Joker voted sexiest Halloween outfit for men
• Witches and Scarecrows make least sexy costumes
• Survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra-marital dating site

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed 1000 of its male and female members in search for the sexiest Halloween costumes of 2019 and the results are in.

If there was a prize going for best Halloween costume it seems the villainous couple Joker (20%) and Harley Quinn (17%) top the charts.

The study also reveals the devil (14%) is set to get men horny this Halloween.

Dracula came in second place for sexiest male costume with 13% of the vote.

Least spellbinding ensemble for women goes to the witch (1%) and the pumpkin (2%).

For men the scarecrow (1%) and Jigsaw (2%) outfits are the least sexy.

Zara a female member on IllicitEncounters.com said “Halloween is all about sex appeal. Witches and cats are super lazy and unoriginal. Personally, I love pulling out all the stops, I’m talking apocalyptic, death-defying, seductive, zombie warrior princess! Let’s get a little bloody and gory in 8-inch heels and stockings, who doesn’t love playing dress up? It’s just a bit of adult fun.”

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Jessica Leoni comments “The Joker with Harley Quinn by his side is a given this Halloween. The recent Joker movie has broken box office records as highest grossing R-rated movie ever – and for good reason. The outfits can also be easily replicated with a bit of home DIY so it’s super easy to get involved.

Dracula coming in second place is unsurprising, a staple on Halloween. There’s something supernaturally appealing about vampires, the cape with the fangs, and promise of immortality. Dracula is just inherently sexy.

I was expecting the devil to come in high for women, the outfit is provocative.I’m visualising red corset, miniskirt and fishnets with shiny red stilettos –horns on the head and a devilish fork – why, hello princess of darkness.

Nobody wants to see men dressed as scarecrows on Halloween, this isn’t Wizard of Oz. And I think I’m with the men when it comes to witches, it’s just such an uninteresting costume”

Results

Sexiest Female Halloween Costumes
Harley Quinn 17%
Devil 14%
Zombie 13%
Vampire 11%
Scary Nurse 9%
Bunny 8%
Cat 6%
Corpse bride 4%
Pirate 4%
Clown 3%
Skeleton 3%
Ghost 3%
Pumpkin 2%
Witch 1%
Other 2%

Sexiest Male Halloween Costumes
Joker 20%
Dracula 13%
Scary Doctor 10%
Zombie  9%
Devil 7%
Frankenstein 6%
Reaper 5%
Beetlejuice 5%
Pirate 4%
Clown 4%
Pumpkin 4%
Skeleton 3%
Ghost 3%
Pinhead 3%
Jigsaw 2%
Scarecrow 1%
Other 1%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Polish are top European love cheats

•         More than a quarter of European adulterers in the UK are Polish
•         19% of the Irish population in the UK and 14% of Romanians are cheating
•         Greeks are the most faithful European nationals in the UK
•         Data released by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people

Could adultery have a nationality? Statistics released by Illicit Encounters gives insight into 2500 of its non-British EU members, revealing the nationalities most likely to be having an affair in the UK.

More than a quarter of adulterers in Britain are of Polish descent (26%)

According to the Office of National Statistics Polish is the most common non-British nationality in the UK since 2007, making up 15% of the total non-British residents* indicative as to why there may be more Polish cheating compared to other non-British nationals.

Second non-British EU national cheating in the UK is Irish with 19% and Romanians come in third place at 14%

The results found that Greeks represent the most faithful non-British EU nationals with only 1% currently having an affair in the UK, followed by Estonians (2%) and Danish (2%)

Lukasz a male member from Poland using the site said “Yes, I am Polish. Yes, I am having an affair. What is the big deal? In my culture we marry young, we have family – divorce is not an option. Most men in long-term relationships, no matter the nationality – are cheating or being cheated on. That is just the state of affairs.”

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Jessica Leoni said “There is a lot more Polish in the UK than any other nationality, and why should they be missing out on all the fun? Poland has strong traditional values, especially when it comes to family – and we do find a lot of people cheat as an alternative to divorce, ensuring that families remain together. Europeans in general have much more liberal views when it comes to sex and relationships and the Polish are no different.

Why aren’t the Greek cheating? Perhaps they’re more willing to put up with unhappy marriages. Or maybe they’re simply following the advice of Socrates who is credited with saying “by all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher.’”

Results
Poland 26%
Ireland 19%
Romania 14%
Italy 8%
Spain 7%
France 5%
Portugal 4%
Germany 4%
Slovakia 3%
Finland 3%
Denmark 2%
Estonia 2%
Greek 1%
Other 2%

*Office of National Statistics – Population of the UK by country of birth and nationality

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Accountants Voted Best Between the Sheets

  • 8 out of 10 women say accountants are best lovers under the covers
  • Founders/entrepreneurs come in close second as most beddable
  • Women find male models and butchers least sexy
  • Results come from survey of 2500 female members by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

78% of women rank accountants as the number one profession to get hot and steamy under the covers in a recent survey by IllicitEncounters.com

Top reasons given by women for wanting to bed an accountant is that they are good in bed, great at dirty talk and don’t finish first. The study indicates that accountants make selfless lovers that focus all their attention on their partner.

Founders/entrepreneurs came in close second place as most beddable with 71% of the vote, and actors third with 68%

Shockingly male models came in second to last with only 7% of women agreeing this profession is good in bed.

Butchers scored the least votes with only 2%

Annabelle a member on IllicitEncounters.com said “Accountants are hot, come on! Someone who is that good with numbers clearly has amazing attention to detail. Good things come to those who wait, and great sex is about patience and communication. For women it isn’t just about the physical either, orgasmic pleasure needs a connection of minds.”

Siobhan another member using the site recalls “I did spend the night once with a male model and I can only describe it as awkward. Not only did I feel super insecure, the whole affair was clumsy and lacked chemistry.”

Relationship expert at IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni comments “Butchers are not sexy. Not only has everybody and their neighbour gone vegan over recent years, but butchers and sex just evoke Hannibal-esque erotica to me – no thanks!

Male models on the other hand, sexy on paper, kind of intimidating in real life. Models live a jet setting lifestyle which also leaves little time to build a genuine relationship.

Accountants are number one because they are thoughtful lovers who are willing to try new things. Experimentation in bed really keeps the passion alive. Freakiness, dirty talk and not finishing first – what more could you want?

The study shows that women are attracted to men who are not only financially endowed but also time-rich – meaning they pay more attention to their date. It takes a confident man to focus more on our pleasure than their own, and that is damn sexy.”
Judging by profession only, do you think this profession is good in bed?

Accountant 78%
Founder/Entrepreneur 71 %
Actor 68%
Engineer 66%
Pilot 59%
Firefighter  57%
Doctor 49%
Teacher 44%
Bar tender 39%
Military 38%
Lawyer 29%
Military 19%
Office Worker 18%
Garbage Disposal man 17%
Retail 11%
Personal Trainer 10%
Police Officer 8%
Model 7%
Butcher 2%

 

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer