The 360 Top Towns for Extra-Marital Affairs

A new cheating map reveals the UK’s 360 top towns for extra-marital affairs with posh Windsor our adultery capital

* The royal town in Berkshire has 1,555 men and women having affairs – 4.29% of the population;
* Sex in the suburbs is booming with the top ten dominated by wealthy South East commuter towns including Henley-on-Thames, Staines, Farnham and Beaconsfield;
* Bournemouth is the most faithful town with less than 1% of the population having affairs;
* Enter your postcode in the  Infidelity Index to find out how many people are cheating where you live

The cheating capital of the UK is wealthy Windsor in Berkshire, according to a new table of the country’s 360 adultery hotspots.

The town – home of Windsor Castle, one of the Queen’s official residences – has been officially named as the place where a husband or wife is most likely to have an affair.
Windsor has 1,555 people cheating.

The interactive Infidelity Index allows users to search a city, town or postcode to discover how many people are having affairs in any locality.

This year’s table from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, shows that sex in the suburbs is booming with five wealthy commuter towns in the South East in the top ten.

Click here to find your local figure – based on data from one million postcodes – https://www.illicitencounters.com/map/standalone

Windsor came out highest with 4.29% of the population cheating.
In second place was Penarth in the Vale of Glamorgan with 869 cheats (4.12% of the population), making it the cheating capital of Wales.

Henley-on-Thames in Oxfordshire was third with 458 cheats (3.98% of the population), Barnstaple in Devon was fourth with 931 cheats (3.22% of the population) and another London commuter town, Staines in Surrey, was fifth with 814 cheats (3.16% of the population).

Hamilton in South Lanarkshire, eighth in the UK table, was Scotland’s cheating capital with 1,431 cheats (3.15% of the population).

The most faithful town was Bournemouth in Hampshire – where less than 1% of the population are cheating.

Windsor, where Prince Harry and Meghan Markle married last year,  is one of the UK’s tourism hotspots with 7.6 million visitors a year.

With an average house price of £574,860 – more than double the national average of £242,639 – it is one of the most desirable places to live in the UK.

IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said: “Windsor is the UK’s new cheating capital.
“It is one of a number of posh commuter towns in the top ten and shows that sex in the suburbs has never been more popular.
“Lots of couples cannot afford to divorce due to the cost of establishing two new homes, so they are sticking with their partner and adding some spice to their marriage by discreetly having an affair.
“They know that with a site such as IllicitEncounters they can have an affair with a like-minded partner who is also looking to cheat. Both sides can have some fun without upsetting things at home.”
The figures are based on IllicitEncounters’ own extensive data on the numbers of Britons cheating.

Since its inception 16 years ago, more than one million people have registered with the site. IllicitEncounters.com has seen a 25% surge in registrations in the last five years and each week around 20,000 people are conducting affairs on the site.
The average income of men on the site is £54,000 a year – with most working in professional jobs.

 

Case study – Helen from Leeds met her future husband after embarking on an affair 

“I met my husband at university. He had a brain tumour and couldn’t have sex because of his medication. Naively I thought I was being a good person or that it would get better with time.

“We had been married six years when I joined IllicitEncounters.com. I didn’t have a plan in mind or any idea really what I was doing but by this point I was worn down by the lack of intimacy.

“My self-esteem had fallen through the floor and I thought there was something wrong with me. At first I was scared that if men said I was unattractive it would validate how I felt.

“I got a message from my now fiancé. He was easy to talk to and had similar issues in his marriage.

“After a month we met. We didn’t talk about leaving our partners, however, as our home relationships continued to decline, possibly because we now put less effort in, we did decide to be together.

“Since then we have moved in together and got engaged at New Year! I’ve never been so happy. I still struggle to accept his compliments as my past experience still leaves me doubting myself.

“But I now feel part of a team rather than being so lonely, lost and hurt in my marriage.”

NOTES TO EDITOR
Illicitencounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1.2 million genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 15 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Britain’s top ten sex fantasies are revealed

* Results are from a new survey of 2,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people

More than half of women have fantasized about having sex with an ex-boyfriend while making love with their current partner, according to a new survey.

The encounter women are most likely to revisit in their head is sex with their first love, with 38% saying they have done this.

Less than quarter of women (24%) feel guilty about these reminisces – with the majority (76%) seeing it as part of life.

Slightly fewer men have sex with the ex in their heads.

Half of men (53%) have fantasized about past sexual encounters while having sex with their partner.

The first love was the most common sexual fantasy, chosen by 23% of men, and only 16% of men felt guilty about their behaviour.

The results come from a new survey of 2,000 people split evenly amongst men and women by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading website for married people.

It looked at the top ten fantasies which people have when they are having sex with their current partners.

Women reminiscing about sex with a former partner was by far the most popular fantasy, with 57% saying they have done this.

The second most popular fantasy for both women and men was recalling a sex scene they have watched on TV or online, chosen by 40% of respondents.

In third place was sex with a celebrity, chosen by 38% of respondents – slightly more popular with women (40%) than men (36%).

The fourth most popular fantasy was a previous sexual encounter with their current partner – with 36% men and women regularly revisiting a particularly passionate former act of love-making.

Sex with a stranger came in fifth place on 29% – more popular with men (31%) than women (27%).

A sexual encounter with a work colleague was the sixth most popular fantasy – chosen with 27% of men and women.

Sex with a friend came seventh with 25%  – more popular with women (27%) than men (23%).

Group sex was the eighth most popular fantasy with a score of 19%  – chosen by far more men (25%) than women (13%).

In ninth place was sex in a public place, chosen by 14% of respondents, and sex with someone in authority such as a police officer or traffic warden came tenth (11%).

IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said: “What this new sex fantasy research shows is that the grass really is greener for a lot of couples who like to reminisce with fondness about past sexual encounters even when they are having sex with their current lovers.

“Sex has become routine for far too many couples and they are choosing to spice things up by starting an affair not just in their fantasies but in reality, too.

“They are hooking up with former lovers on social media sites such as Facebook and using dating sites such as IllicitEncounters.com to meet like-minded people for discreet affairs.”

More than one million people have registered with IllicitEncounters.com since the site was started more than ten years ago.It is enjoying a bumper start to 2019 with registrations up 25% in the first six weeks, as increasing numbers of unhappy spouses act on their New Year’s Resolution to shake up their relationship by starting an affair.

Britain’s top ten sexual fantasies revealed

1. Sex with the ex – 55%
2. A sex scene on TV or online – 40%
3. Sex with a celebrity – 38%
4. Sex with my current partner – 36%
5. Sex with a stranger – 29%
6. An affair with a work colleague – 27%
7. Sex with a friend – 25%
8. Group sex – 19%
9. Sex in a public place – 14%
10. Sex with someone in authority – police officer or traffic warden – 11%

NOTES TO EDITOR
Illicitencounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1.2 million genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 15 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Tel: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer