​Monday at 8am is the golden hour for affair-seekers.

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According to data released by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra marital affairs site, Monday mornings is when more people message their flings.

The study found that in an average week the amount of messages that get sent between affair-seekers is 1.36 million. The research also revealed that the average amount of messages sent per hour is 8125, however, on a Monday between 8 – 9am this figure is 76992 or 6% of all messages sent in a one week period.

Members on the site also voted on the top tips to contact your lover without getting caught out.

The top three tips were –
1. Only ever contact your lover when you are in complete privacy.
2. Never call your lover by their real name, always refer to them as the same sex. (e.g. if her name is Christina call her Chris)
3. Don’t use your normal method of contact for your lover, have an alias email address and use a chat-app rather than texting.

Contacting your mistress or histress when you are alone makes sense, privacy ensures discretion. The last thing you would want is to speak to your lover in front of your spouse. Using a same sex code name may be used to further disguise who you are talking to – women don’t tend to be threatened by a husband’s male friend so this may help lower suspicion. Alternative methods of contact also allow affair-seekers added protection – the last thing you would want to do is send an iMessage to your lover that is synced with the family iPad.

Sandra a female member using the site said “Weekends are for family, that is my number one rule. But that also means I have little to no contact with my other lover during the time, and I really do miss him. Mondays I get the kids ready for school then my husband drives them up, as soon as he’s out the first thing I can think of is to check in with my part-time boyfriend and see how he’s been doing. It’s my favourite time of the week, butterflies in my stomach anxiously awaiting a reply!”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “You need to remember we have a lot of high flying professionals on the site, Monday 8am you’re either on your commute into work or already in the privacy of your office – perfect time to discretely send a much awaited message to your lover.

After the weekend cold-turkey of space from your lover, you’re sure to miss them come Monday! We’ve found that many of our members choose this time to keep their illicit love affair afloat and remind their lovers that they’ve been thinking about them.”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7729 6098

Twitter: @illicitclaire

Cheating men don’t watch porn! But they did when they were faithful.

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Monogamous men watch pornography, but those that are unfaithful don’t. Over half of adulterers admit they’ve stopped watching porn since having an affair.

Research from UK’s largest extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com reveals that you are 38% more likely to watch pornographic material when you are in a devoted relationship.

The affairs site surveyed 1,400 of its male members and found that 72% admitted they watched porn regularly (between 1-3 times a week) prior to engaging in an affair, compared to just 34% since having cheated on their partner.

The study also questioned users on their porn habits and the majority kept it a secret from their spouse (68%). Most married men said they wouldn’t watch porn with their wife (84%) however, more than half would be happy to watch porn with their mistress (64%)

Jonathon a male member using the site said “I’ve been with my wife for 12 years, and probably stopped having sex regularly halfway through our 12 years together. I guess that coincides with the time I began to watch a lot more porn a lot more often. If you’re not getting off with your wife, how else are you supposed to? Now I’ve been seeing other people, my sex life has been revived and I don’t feel the need to watch it anymore.”

“It boils down to the Coolidge effect.” Psychologist Lucy Redford said “Men who have the same sexual partner experience a decline in arousal over time; however, when the same man is introduced to new receptive females he experiences a renewed sense of sexual excitement. The bottom line is multiple partners keep a man’s interest, this can devoid the need to self-entertain through the medium of pornographic videos.”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “Men are visual creatures, and how can you expect a man to be turned on by the same person eternally. People are pleasure-seeking creatures, we’re never truly content or satisfied, we’re always seeking more – naturally when a man is no longer finding sexual satisfaction in their significant other they may attempt to feed their sexual appetite elsewhere – let them have porn!

What infidelity does is creates a sense of newness and defeats the point of watching porn, that is, until the novelty wears off. Porn is of course very stimulating, but so are new and exciting sexual partners.”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

​Sexiest Female Footballers from the England 2015 FIFA World Cup!

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Britons have spoken, Toni Duggan voted the sexiest female footballer from the 2015 England FIFA squad.

IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site polled 600 of its male members and found Toni Duggan to be the sexiest England footballer in the World Cup with 17% of the vote, followed by Alex Greenwood (14%) and Katie Chapman (10%).

The England Lionesses suffered a tragic defeat against Japan last night, but amidst the devastation the women can take consolation in the knowledge that they’re still getting their male fans hot under the collar. Although more bad news for Laura Bassett who ended the semi-finals by kicking the ball into their own goal, she only came in at 1% in the poll.

Winger Toni Duggan topping the poll comes as no surprise – she’s an obvious winner. Duggan is a stunning blonde bombshell with a figure to die for. It seems that blondes are favourite, with Alex Greenwood and Katie Chapman both donning blonde hair.

Ricky a member on the site said “Women playing sports is just so hot, it puts them in league with men and I think we respect them all the more for it. Someone faster, better and stronger than you – who still looks feminine and sexy, er, what more could you want? Put any man in a room with Toni Duggan and dare them not to flirt – very few could stop themselves. I’d learn to do a 1,000 kick up’s in a row to bag a date with a footballer, no other body can measure that kind of fitness.”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It’s official: the lionesses are making British men roar! Forget the World Cup loss, we’re still team GB! The ladies have done us proud getting to the semi-finals and now we will celebrate them in style.

Can you be surprised our men find these incredible women attractive? It’s standard practice that footballers train hard to remain strong and lean, and the girls are fit on and off the pitch! Naturally this means they will have outstanding figures, and it seems that our British men think so too!

Toni Duggan deserves to come in first place, she is glamorous and sporty – this is a mix that doesn’t come around often, and boy is it attractive.”
Top 5 Sexiest Female Footballers

Toni Duggan 17%
Alex Greenwood 14%
Katie Chapman 10%
Jodie Taylor 8%
Alex Scott 6%

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

​Forget the diet, have an affair!

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If you’re on the hunt for a lover, don’t diet! Affair-seeking men prefer voluptuous women.

IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site has discovered the key attributes that cheating men look for in a mistress.

The affairs site surveyed 1500 of its male members who are actively pursuing an affair to discover what they seek in a potential lover. The study reveals the majority of men prefer bigger ladies over women who are slim or toned.

Curvaceous came on top with 34% of the vote, beating Petite (24%) and Athletic (14%)

The findings also revealed Blue to be the most popular eye colour (27%) and men also preferred Blonde’s over any other hair colour (29%) for their mistress.

Sex appeal is naturally important to anybody looking for a sexual partner, what is interesting is that a large proportion of men are looking for a curvaceous, blue eyed, blonde. With 72% of the men surveyed in their 40s, perhaps they are rooting their fantasies back 20 years ago with films like Basic Instinct starring Sharon Stone, popularising the blonde bombshell archetype of a female.

Harry a member of the site said “I think most men are naturally attracted to curvy girls, they’re head turners. Ultimately this is about sex and curvaceous woman have sex appeal – no man can truly say he doesn’t find it difficult not to look at a woman with big hips and a voluptuous décolletage. Personally, I think big women are sexier and more confident – far more enticing then a stick insect, let’s be honest. My wife is quite the opposite, slim and conservative – but I’m not with her for the sex.”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It’s important to know that the male age demographic of affair-seekers is typically older, and these men will have been growing up when curvy women were celebrated, Marilyn Monroe, Cindy Crawford, Pamela Anderson – to name a few.

Curvy women are more aesthetically pleasing and look healthier, who would want Keira Knightly when they can have Shakira – the proof is in the pudding!

Its time women stopped dieting and starting embracing their sexy natural figures, anyway, everybody knows bigger women bounce better in bed – and sex burns calories.”

Full Results

What body type is most attractive?

Athletic 14%
Cuddly 12%
Curvaceous 34%
Petite 24%
Don’t Mind 16%

What eye colour attracts you most to a woman?

Black 7%
Blue 27%
Brown 9%
Green 17%
Grey 18%
Hazel 14%
Don’t Mind 8%

What hair colour attracts you most to a woman?

Auburn 9%
Black 14%
Blonde 29%
Brown 24%
Red 8%
Don’t Mind 16%

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire