Prime Real Estate – the Building Blocks of Infidelity

• There’s a positive correlation between the value of the property someone lives in, and the likelihood that they are a cheater or have been cheated on themselves
• People marry for money, not love, which leads to an unhappy marriage once the charm of living a luxurious lifestyle wears off
• The most adulterous town and borough in the UK are unsurprisingly two very affluent areas (High Wycombe and the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea)
• The research was conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

If you’re looking on enviously at your friend’s semi-detached house in a leafy suburb, here’s a silver lining for you: they’re more likely to be cheated on (or be a cheater themselves).

That’s according to IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, who surveyed over 1500 of their members. From their research IllicitEncounters.com were able to conclude the following:

• 4% own a property worth between £200,000 – £300,000
• 11% own a property worth between £300,000 – £400,000
• 11% own a property worth between £400,000 – £500,000
• 13% own a property worth between £500,000 – £600,000
• 18% own a property worth between £600,000 – £700,000
• 20% own a property worth between £700,000 – £800,000
• 10% own a property worth £800,000 or more
• 13% don’t own a property

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, explains: ”Under the right set of circumstances, anyone can have an affair, and while an affair is wealth agnostic, there’s certainly some key links between a person’s disposable income, specifically the property they own, and the likelihood of them having an affair.”

One of those links is the proportion of people who marry for money and not love.

“While the terms ‘sugar daddy’ and ‘gold digger’ can come across as derogatory, when you dig a little deeper, you’ll find that there are some nuggets of truth in there,” says Grant. “The lure of money can be hard to resist, but there’s only so much that it can do,” he adds. “While the initial charm of living a comfortable or luxurious lifestyle wears off, you’re left with one person in the relationship, if not both, unhappy with the situation that they’ve found themselves in.”

It’s an idea that’s corroborated by the Infidelity Index. Released last month, the Infidelity Index revealed the most adulterous towns in the UK, with High Wycombe and the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea topping the list for the most adulterous town in the UK and most adulterous London borough respectively.

“It was of little surprise to us to see that two very affluent areas topped the Infidelity Index this year,” adds Grant.

“Money can buy a lot of things, but love and happiness? Maybe not.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email:presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

“I’m just not ready for commitment yet” – most popular line women use to dump a partner, according to new research

“I’m just not ready for commitment yet” – most popular line women use to dump a partner, according to new research

* Second most popular is “This is going too fast for me” and “We’re just not a good match” is third;

* The top answer men use for ending a relationship with a woman is the much more brutal: “It’s just not working;”

* Women are more concerned about softening the blowing and not hurting their partner’s feelings;

* Men are more likely to highlight poor sex and lack of physical compatibility in their answers;

* The answers are from a new poll of 1,000 people by Britain’s biggest extra-marital dating site, IllicitEncounters.com

Women have revealed their ten favourite lines for telling a partner a relationship is over and the top answer is: “I’m just not ready for commitment yet.”

The second most popular line is “This is going to fast for me” and the third is: “We’re just not a good match.”

The results show that women are far more sensitive then men when it comes to ending a relationship.

The top answer for men ending a relationship with a woman is the far more brutal: “It’s just not working.”

In second place for men is “I’ve met someone else” and “I’m not attracted to you any more” is third.

The results are revealed in a new survey of 1,000 people by Britain’s biggest extra-marital affairs dating site, IllicitEncounters.com.

Women are more concerned about softening the blow and coming up with reasons for the break-up which hide their lover’s failings.

Men are far more likely to tell it straight and say exactly why they want to end it, even if that involves admitting they have met someone else.

Poor sex and lack physical compatibility were far more important to men than women in the reasons they give for ending a relationship.

Women are more likely than men to end a relationship face-to-face but both sexes are increasingly using email and even text to tell a lover they are history.

Just over half of women (52%) would meet a partner to say the relationship is over, while fewer than half of men (43%) would break the news in person.

A third of women prefer to end a relationship over the phone (27%), 15% have done it by email and 8% have done it by text.

Men are more likely to give the bad news electronically – 21% of men have dumped a partner by email and 19% have done it by text, while just 17% prefer to do it on the phone.
llicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that increasing numbers of online daters jump quickly from one relationship to the next.

He said: “They meet someone they like, have some fun and then quickly moved on. If you are going to be a success dating online you have to learn how to end a relationship without causing too much fuss.

“Men could learn a lot from women in the art of letting a partner now gently. Women far more likely to find euphemisms to sweeten the pill – saying it is a ‘relationship’ failure rather than being down to the man’s failings.

“Men have much less imagination and just tell women straight what has gone wrong.”
Every week, around 20,000 people in the UK are having affairs on IllicitEncounters.com.
The average income of the men on the site is £54,000 a year, with most working in professional jobs.

The most popular answers for ending a relationship

Women

1 I am not ready for commitment yet.
2 This is going too fast for me.
3 We’re not a good match.
4 We want different things.
5 I need to concentrate on my career.
6 I don’t like your friends or family.
7 It’s just not working.
8 You are not mature enough.
9 We have not got enough in common.
10 I don’t trust you.

Men

1 It’s just not working.
2 I’ve met someone else.
3 I’m not attracted to you any more.
4 We’ve lost that sexual spark.
5 It’s not you, it’s me.
6 I need to concentrate on my career.
7 We want different things.
8 I don’t want to see you any more.
9 I am not ready for commitment yet.
10 We have not got enough in common.

How to tell a partner they are dumped

Women

1 Face to face – 52%
2 Over the phone – 27%
3 By email – 15%
4 By text – 8%

Men

1 Face to face – 43%
2 Email – 21%
3 By text – 19%
4 Over the phone 17%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

What time is Sex O’Clock? 10.24pm on a Saturday night – that is when most couples are having sex, according to new research

* Peak time comes just six minutes before Match of the Day – suggesting sex is more important than football or men don’t last very long!
* We actually desire sex most at 5.35pm on Saturdays – but it is far trickier to make love at that time;
* 55% of couples are so busy they need to ‘schedule’ sex in their diaries;
* Most popular activities before sex are a romantic meal and watching TV;

* Findings come from a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s biggest dating site for married people

Sex O’Clock – the time of the week when most couples are having sex – is 10.24pm on a Saturday night, according to new research.

It was the peak time for love-making and usually followed a romantic meal and a spell watching TV.

The busiest time for sex comes just six minutes before the start of Match Of The Day – suggesting sex is more important than football to most couples or men don’t last very long in bed!

Saturdays are by far the most popular day for sex – chosen by 42% of couples, followed by Sundays (26%) and Fridays (22%).

However, the time when couples most desire sex and when they actually do it differs by almost five hours.

The time when we are most aroused is 5.35pm on a Saturday – but clearly there are fewer opportunities to have sex in the late afternoon.

The survey showed that our sex lives are a constant battle between desire and opportunity.
A third of us are most aroused first thing in the morning – yet just 12% make love at that time because of work pressures.

We desire sex far more in the summer – named as the sexiest season by 62% of respondents, followed by winter (20%), spring (14%) and autumn (4%).

The findings come in a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s biggest dating site for married people.

Around half of couples (45%) are so busy that they ‘schedule’ sex with their long-term partner or their lover in a diary.

Six out of ten couples have booked a hotel getaway specifically to get some time alone for sex and intimacy.

Alcohol is not a key component of most couples’ foreplay – with 60% saying they rarely drink before having sex. Less than a quarter (22%) said they often boozed before love-making.

The most popular activity prior to sex was a romantic meal, followed by watching TV, talking intimately, going to the pub and a night out with friends.

IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that while Saturdays was also by far the most popular day of the week for sex, Friday was the most popular day for affairs.

He said: “People cheating on their partners prefer Fridays to Saturdays for illicit encounters for the very simple reason that they can use work as a cover.

“Having a few drinks with colleagues is by far the most popular excuse love cheats use to cover up for their affair. Obviously that is easiest to do on a Friday than a Saturday.

What this new research shows is that cheaters are getting the best of both worlds at weekends when it comes for sex – Friday nights with their lover and Saturday nights with their spouse!”

IllicitEncounters.com has more than one million members seeking affairs with around 20,000 couples active on the site each month.

Most members are white collar professionals with an average income of £54,000 a year.

 
What is your favourite day of the week for sex?

1 Saturday (42%)
2 Sunday (26%)
3 Friday (22%)
4 Wednesday (4%)
5 Thursday (3%)
6 Tuesday (2%)
7 Monday (1%)

What are you most likely to be doing before having sex?

1 Romantic meal
2 Watching TV
3 Talking intimately
4 Going to the pub
5 Out with friends

Over Half of Wives Want More Sex from their Husbands

• 57% of women (who have been married for over 5 years) are “dissatisfied” with the amount of sex they are getting
• 62% are unhappy with their partner’s performance in bed
• Half of women want to get intimate at least twice a month
• 60% felt that a lack of intimacy has led them to want to have an affair
• The survey comes from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

Women across the UK are moaning and groaning, but it’s for all the wrong reasons. That’s according to IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, who surveyed nearly 2000 female members who have been married for over 5 years to find out how satisfied they were with the intimate side of their marriage.

57% of respondents reported a “dissatisfaction” with the amount of sex they were getting, while an even greater number, 62%, were unhappy with their husband’s performance between the sheets.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, said: “It doesn’t make for good reading. You’ll often find that, as a relationship goes on, the spark slowly starts to fade, and getting intimate can become more of a chore or force of habit. Evidently however, for many women that simply isn’t enough, and you can’t really blame them.”

As to how much counts as ‘enough,’ IllicitEncounters.com’s survey found that 50% of respondents felt that getting intimate at least twice a month was sufficient. 27% felt that once a month was enough, while 10% want to have sex three times a month. Of the remaining 13%, 5% want to get intimate 2-3 times a week, with 3% stating that more than once a week was enough.

The survey also showed that a lack of intimacy could potentially lead to many women cheating on their husbands, with over half (60%) of respondents touting the poor physical side to their relationship as their main reason for joining IllicitEncounters.com.

“Needless to say, a lack of passion in a relationship, whether that’s down to quality or quantity, could very easily prove to be a major stumbling block,” adds Grant.

“Saying ‘hey honey, you’re not quite good enough where it counts’ isn’t an easy thing for any woman to say to her husband, but at the same time, very few people will sit around and refuse to act on their instincts – they’re only human, after all.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

IllicitEncounters.com To Acquire Private Island for Adulterers

For any couple, finding the perfect romantic getaway can be hard. For adulterers, it’s even harder. That’s why IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, are in advanced negotiations to acquire their very own island, which will provide the perfect location for a quick getaway for affair-seekers.

The island, currently dubbed as Illicit Retreat, is situated about 100 miles from Portsmouth, and will be equipped with private apartments, containing all the basics and amenities that one would expect, including a dining room, bedrooms, cooking facilities and a jacuzzi.

Needless to say, the island also sports various natural attractions, including several beaches.

IllicitEncounters.com also plan to provide transportation by helicopter to ensure that their members won’t get caught on public transport or add a suspiciously large amount of mileage on their cars.

IllicitEncounters.com’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, says: “You don’t need a passport to travel – you’re avoiding public transport entirely, in fact – and without the need for a car, your tracks are completely covered. All you need to do is sneak out for a ‘business trip’ and the rest is taken care of for you.”

That’s not all, as the site have also drafted up a non-disclosure agreement that every visitor to the island must sign, ensuring that no one is at risk of being outed.

“What happens on the island stays on the island,” says Grant.

“If only we’d thought of this before, we could have saved the likes of Vernon Kay and Jeremy McConnell, to name just a couple, quite a bit of hassle.

It would be quite apt if we could get the likes of Gordon Ramsey to cook for our members, but admittedly that’s probably a bridge too far,” Grant joked.

Illicit Retreat is currently scheduled for an official opening sometime in 2017, but you can now begin to officially register your interest onIllicitEncounters.com/retreat

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.