Saucy New Year Bucket List

* Phone sex is the number one sexual adventure we’d like to try in 2020
* Men say yes to sex in public, no to role-play
* Women say no to threesomes, but yes to foreplay
* Survey conducted by the UK’s largest extra-marital dating site

We’ve heard it all before – lose weight, save more, drink less – it’s the same old resolutions every year.

Rather than focus on the obvious, put the vote to 800 of it’s users with a slightly different kind of poll – what sexy bedroom adventures would they most like to explore in 2020.

400 men and 400 women were questioned on whether they would like to try out any of the following sex adventures in 2020 and here are the results.

Top sexual adventure for men to explore in the bedroom is sex in public 90%, a stark contrast to women, of which only 34% were interested in ticking this adventure off their bucket list. Close second adventure for men is hotel sex with 88% of the vote.

Top sexual adventure for women to explore in the bedroom is foreplay 92%, followed by phone sex 82%

Men would least like to try out role play 32% and women would least like to engage in a threesome 24%

Phone sex is the top sexual fantasy for men and women combined with 80.5% of men and women wanting to try phone sex in 2020.

Sexy New Year Bucket List

Sex in Public
Men – 90% said yes
Women – 34% said yes

Usually explored in the honeymoon period of a relationship when you simply cannot keep your hands off each other. It’s naughty and dangerous, not to mention subject to nudity and decency laws – not one for the fainthearted! My recommendation is to find somewhere isolated and discrete for those wanting to try sex in public for the very first time, before you join the expert level mile high club.

Men – 32% said yes
Women – 41% said yes

Getting involved in role-play is the ultimate way to express yourself in the bedroom and acting out any adventurous sexual fantasies you may have. Decide on a scenario and roles prior and play dress up to make the experience more authentic, think doctors and nurses, coppers and robbers – whatever tickles your fancy.

Men – 55% said yes
Women – 37% said yes

A great way to explore your kinkier side. It’ll get you communicating better in the bedroom and discovering all sorts of thrilling things you may have not even realised you were into. Rihanna got it right in her S&M track – “sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me.”

Phone sex
Men – 79% said yes
Women – 82% said yes

Nothing beats this old time classic. Imagine a long night ahead of you apart from your lover, what better way to close the distance then a naughty call? Dirty talk is an art, and a timeless sexy adventure. Now you can turn up the heat by switching on the camera too, to add that extra dimension to this fantasy.

Hotel Sex
Men – 88% said yes
Women – 70% said yes

Everybody loves a bit of off-duty fun, and booking a hotel to have some romantic adventures with your significant other is the best way to enjoy some one on one adult fun. Picture this, booking a room by the hour and texting your partner, “I’m waiting for you in Room 609 baby…hurry” – undeniably sexy.

New Sex Positions
Men – 84% said yes
Women – 71% said yes

Kama Sutra – why not? If you always rely on missionary, mixing it up a little will add so much more to your sex life.

Men – 65% said yes
Women – 24% said yes

Some may say that three is in fact – the magic number. Inviting a third person into the party can be exhilarating, fun, and full of discoveries. Make sure that you have some boundaries and rules laid out with your partner before giving this one a shot, and if everybody is game this bucket list must have guarantees a night of racy fun.

Men – 68% said yes
Women – 92% said yes

None of this wham, bam, thank you mam – foreplay is essential for good sex! Spending more time playing before hand and getting each other aroused creates anticipation and sexual energy that is bound to make the act of love making a whole lot more satisfying.

Dress up & Strip off
Men – 74% said yes
Women – 68% said yes

The Full Monty? Yes please. Dressing up and performing a strip tease is going to get anybody’s pulses racing. Invest in some erotic clothing or lingerie and step outside of your comfort zone – not only does playing dress up build your confidence, it’s a sure way to turn your partner on. sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said “A new year signifies new opportunities and why shouldn’t that extend to our bedroom fantasies. Whether you’re in a stale relationship that needs some spice, or single and ready to mingle – giving the sexy New Year bucket list a try this year is a must!”


NOTES TO EDITOR is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about at this moment in time.


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